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GG's; is your SO helpful around the house? Is S(he) more helpful or less helpful when dressed?

I cant answer the second part right now but for the most part my SO is ok with cleaning up around the house. I know it's not his thing, and he's better at cooking on his own than initiating cleaning. If I ask him he's happy to do it but I notice that he rarely realizes he has to do it on his own. I don't blame him too much on that front because I am usually the cluttered one. Deep cleaning through, like washing the tub and toilet, the sink, mopping, I don't know if he realizes they exist. They can get filthy and it will live like that until I can do it. However, I don't mind since he's the one working right now and I feel like I gotta do something to balance that.

It's always been my contention that cross dressing is more fun when you have something to do once dressed. Even if it's just cleaning the tub or the toilet.

Cross dressing is more fun when you have things to do that you enjoy while dressed. Cleaning the toilet is not high on that list, it's a chore no matter what I wear.

I lived in a female free home for several years and developed my own comfort level with cleaning. It's one of those things that has to be done, like taking out the trash. However my comfort level and that of my female spouse do not always coincide.

On the other hand, after 25 years of marriage she still doesn't know how to split firewood, and hasn't balanced the checkbook, filed a tax return, or paid a utility bill in almost all that time. I think each couple arrives at their own division of labor.

Zari

I guess what I mean is that having SOMETHING to do while dressed, regardless if it's a favored thing or not, is for me at least, preferable to just focusing on the dressing.

In my case I dress everyday and just go about business as usuall, I prefer the look and feel of womens cloths and I just prefer to wear them.