Crossdressers-Haven.com

Despite the fact that I wear a blond/silver wig, I Ponder the "what" of our existence, oh yes, I do!



Why do you GG's hang around here?

I love the fact that you do, but I have no idea why, because I have never met a real girl who would even put up with my drive to be a woman, much less one who would embrace it. I've had a lot of women friends, yes, but there was never a question of us becoming "partners", although "I" did fall in love a couple of times, but then I tend to do that with anyone who treats me nice.

This question isn't so much for the women who married a man, and then later found out he liked cd'ing, or wanted to change sex, or whatever, and just loved him/her, but for the women who just like/accept this whole deally.

Probably a dumb, inappropriate question, but what the heck, I am half lit, and anonymous besides, so....

Oh, just to keep within the "parameters", do those scrunchies go with that dress?

Hi Tracy,
I hang aroung here because I am partnered with a CD and this is the place I found where I got my questions answered and feel safe.

My partner, Mariaa, told me of his CD early enough in our relationship for me to run. I didn't because I see it as a relatively small part of his whole person. Admittedly, there was a time when he realized he was safe to explore this previously hidden part of him and I was afraid it was all we were going to have to talk about, but that passed.

There are women out there who actually seek out CD men. I'm not one of them but I found one I that love and its ok.

Hi, Tracy -

I joined the forum because I have a couple of friends who are CD and I had never heard of it before - so I came here to educate myself. I have always had an 'open mind' and feel that it's no one's business what someone else does with their life - meaning, if they are GLBT - provided they are not physically harming anyone.

I am staying because I am continuously learning new things about CDs in general, and because I discovered that quite a few CDs needed a GG's honest opinion or 'how to' information - something that they did not have access to, for whatever reason, or did not feel comfortable asking a GG they knew (because they were not 'out' yet, etc.). The result was a Dear GG thread that quickly turned into its own section.

In the meantime, I have made quite a few new friends - CD and GG. I have also become very close with one CD in particular whom I love more than life itself - I love her as well as him. I have no problems going out in public with her, and if someone thinks of us as lesbians - so be it. We'll just tell them to find their own girlfriend - this one is taken!!

- SL