Dressing is so relaxing

[CJ]

Feeling relaxed, Julie? Hmmm, could be the breathing exercises helped, too.

Seriously, though, I agree. Oddly enough (or perhaps not), I get the same kind of feeling from any activity that allows me to both "break" with a world I sometimes find harsh and unnecessarily cruel and to get in touch with what's most real inside of me. Meditating, reading a stirring novel, seeing a poignant film, dressing up, writing, making love, spending time with my little niece, playing with animals, biking around the paths that vein the city, having a good cry or a good laugh, swimming naked in the ocean (God, how I miss that!), walking through the woods, listening to (not just hearing) music, etc.

These are all things enjoyed by both the woman within and the man without. Of course, the woman within finds dressing up particularly relaxing...

Love,
CJ

[Carol Ann]

Hi Julie and CJ,
I have to agree with ya'al, I prefur to dress as much as I can as I do change inside and out. Funny how putting on something silky underneath, pair of hose and heels can change your mood right now. Relaxing YES, but in heaven. As long as I have been doing this I still really don't understand what it is that comes over me. Puzzled, Carol Ann

[Beauty]

Now that I've been dressed since yesterday, I can tell you I will be able to handle the curve balls Monday is going to throw at me.

I hadn't dressed in like over 2 mos. and I'd really repressed it when my wife and I had a misunderstanding, several months before that.

Dressing this long is like being in a spa. lol..

I was happy when I paused my dressing, even though I was confused why I was doing it. It produced some very important events for me personally. I was able to work out the miscommunication between myself and my wife. It allowed me a much needed few days off from the web and I tried something for the sake of understanding (nothing sexual and with my wife's ok) In my opinion the experience was successful and I'm back wiser. Thank you God! Most importantly I had the support of the board and some very very special people.

It's always good to know this board is here so I can share this stuff.

Beauty

[Sally]

Hello Julie.

I know exactly what you mean, I discovered a long time ago the peace of mind and relaxing floating atmosphere Sally brought to me, to try and explain it to someone other than one of our own would never do the feeling justice.

One of the most mind blowing experiences I ever had was the first time I ever went out dressed completly as Sally. It was in the middle of winter in our National Capital, Canberra, where the temperature can get below zero.

We had had dinner at a restaurant then gone onto a club where we wined and danced until the early hours of the morning and I'll never forget when we came out to get in the taxi and the icy wind hit me, it was an experience I'll never forget.

At the time I was wearing a knee length A line skirt and the icy wind blew up around places which had never experienced such chilling wind before and it gave me a realisation of what women experienced naturally and even though it was freezing, it was one of the most wonderful things I ever experienced, as strange as it may seem, it gave me one of the most feminine feelings I've ever known. After that I was always most aware of how it felt when walking along the street, it made me take more notice of what I was feeling at the time, it gave me a deeper insight into what women feel and experience. Even in hot weather it is a pleasant experience to feel the wind blow your skirt up, it makes me wonder how on earth women wear long pants so much, here in the shopping malls there is a game we play, Spot the dress. lol..

Kind Regards.

Sally.

[Kyra]

Way to go Beauty!!


Hmmm, was it that sassy maid's outfit?

As far as what relaxes me, I have to admit, that being totally dressed is in itself both stimulating and relaxing for me. I feel whole. Complete. If I could only do it more often.

Hugs to all,
Kyra

[S. Lisa Smith]

Dressing at home is very relaxing for me also. I also feel whole. Dressing to go out and going out is completely different. Both give rise to feminine feelings, but they are so different. Going out is such a rush and so much fun. Interacting with women and being one of the girls is great!

[Jadeanne]

Hi all,

This is a great thread.

I'm a stay-at-home CD who dresses for a few hours in the evening while surfing the internet. I certainly find it relaxing and mentally refreshing to change from a drab, serious bald male who after coming home from work, has dinner, then falls asleep for about an hour, to a sometimes silly bleached blonde who loves lingerie, garters, and frilly clothing (NO pants for Jadeanne)!

One awakening experience last winter was when I went into our unheated attic in a short dress and stockings - that blast of cold on my bare thighs was a real awakening!

Jadeanne

[Laura]

Hi Julie and all,

I've been quite limited in my dressing. Not having any acceptance from my wife, I can only dress during the weekdays during the day, when I'm home (not at work). This is not that often; and when I do, I'm always alone and usually must focus on getting my work done (I have an office at home as well as at work). So, I'm not as relaxed as I would be if I dressed after work. That's not to say I don't really enjoy wearing a nice dress or skirt.

One thing I have found is this. Like Rikki, I feel much better when I get interaction with others while en femme. My femme side craves recognition and mirroring. The funny thing is that that recognition can come often even without being dressed. It's very psychological. That's one of the reasons I am trying to integrate more of the feminine qualities into my everyday life. To be recognized and appreciated as my Laura side--which I can get, for example, from participating in this forum--gives me as much or more satisfaction as being dressed.

Love,

Laura

[Beauty]

Hello Julie.

I know exactly what you mean, I discovered a long time ago the peace of mind and relaxing floating atmosphere Sally brought to me, to try and explain it to someone other than one of our own would never do the feeling justice.

One of the most mind blowing experiences I ever had was the first time I ever went out dressed completly as Sally. It was in the middle of winter in our National Capital, Canberra, where the temperature can get below zero.

We had had dinner at a restaurant then gone onto a club where we wined and danced until the early hours of the morning and I'll never forget when we came out to get in the taxi and the icy wind hit me, it was an experience I'll never forget.

At the time I was wearing a knee length A line skirt and the icy wind blew up around places which had never experienced such chilling wind before and it gave me a realisation of what women experienced naturally and even though it was freezing, it was one of the most wonderful things I ever experienced, as strange as it may seem, it gave me one of the most feminine feelings I've ever known. After that I was always most aware of how it felt when walking along the street, it made me take more notice of what I was feeling at the time, it gave me a deeper insight into what women feel and experience. Even in hot weather it is a pleasant experience to feel the wind blow your skirt up, it makes me wonder how on earth women wear long pants so much, here in the shopping malls there is a game we play, Spot the dress. lol..

Kind Regards.

Sally.

Hi Sally,

Thank you for that story. I felt totally there!
Hey . . . I want to have that experience.
Also a BIG thanks for everyone's confirmation that what I was saying made sense.

Beauty

[Lorna]

Dressing just fills me with a feeling of such joy and beauty that no drug or medication could ever possibly do.

When I'm dressed as Lorna, I feel beautiful, I feel confident, I feel relaxed, I feel adored, I feel happy, I feel that there is very little that I cannot do. Ironically enough, these feelings I feel as Lorna have helped me to feel better about myself in male mode! And it is true what they say about inner confidence: you begin to give off a positive aura. And the aura you project will be returned threefold!

I have met and dated more open-minded GGs since the outing of Lorna, worked at clubs, hosted CD parties, set up and worked with websites and magazines. At the end of this month I am attempting standup comedy for the first time – something in the past I never would have had the guts to try.

I know that CDing for many folks out there has closed a lot of doors, but I honestly feel that it can open a lot of doors as well. Not necessarily the kind of doors to put a lot of food on your table, but the kind of doors to put a smile on your face and give you a little peace of mind. Once we are at peace with ourselves then we can go on to do anything we want, and overcome any adversity we can! I’m living proof.

Now, it could also be argued that I’ve just been “lucky”, but in all honesty I have never considered myself to be “lucky” with anything – Lorna has had her bad days too. And Rick has been put through the ringer many a day! Dressing allows me the time and space to “refuel and recharge” before going back to facing the harsh realities of Rick’s life!

The bottom line for me is this – Dressing is one of the best gifts I have been given! It’s a fun and creative outlet that just feels so good.

[Lorna]

Hey Beauty,

I'm real happy that you were able to smooth things out with your wife. It truly is our femme sides that help us to be more caring and understanding husbands or boyfriends! Good for you, hon!

[Beauty]

Hi Lorna,

Thanks.

I loved your post about the freedom of CDing. You've done so much in your life add one more big thing! You are going to do great!!!

Beauty

[Beauty]

That is just sooooo wrong on multiple levels!!!

I'm not upset though. It was one of your posts that got me back into a skirt, hose, bra and blouse.

Beauty

[Toni Divine]

Dressing just fills me with a feeling of such joy and beauty that no drug or medication could ever possibly do.

When I'm dressed as Lorna, I feel beautiful, I feel confident, I feel relaxed, I feel adored, I feel happy, I feel that there is very little that I cannot do. Ironically enough, these feelings I feel as Lorna have helped me to feel better about myself in male mode! And it is true what they say about inner confidence: you begin to give off a positive aura. And the aura you project will be returned threefold!

I know where your coming from exactly, Lorna. Particularly the part above about CDing giving back to you in other areas of your life. I think the better we are in touch with ourselves, the better our whole life becomes. For us CDers, when we are able to connect to this part of our lives, so many doors open up for us, if we have the outlook and sense about us to take advantage. You gotta love it!

[Beauty]

Beauty, my wise lady friend.



You have done so much for me too, my lady.

Love, Julie

So what if it was March 2nd.