My first day outside, the safe home.

Tell us about the things you like to do, and what you do, when you go out en femme. All other topics will be moved to appropriate forum.

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Ms. Erin
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Eileen (SO) wrote:Very good for you, Ms. Erin!
Now, you need to learn to drive a stick while wearing heels.

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Hah... My newest heels are a pair of knee height 5 inch heels. Can one actually drive with heels?
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Why yes my dear, as Carol does it all the time but I drive and automatic *-*
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I will have to try to drive my car one day. (honestly its a Ford Ranger pick-up truck, but I always refer to it as my car) Currently I have 3 pair of shoes, 2.5 - 5 and 6 inch heels. However the 2.5 inch is size 14 and a big to large, the 6 inch size 12 to tight to wear comfortable for long times, and the 5 inch knee high boots size 14 fit best.

My next order will be for a size 13 to try that fit.

Those knee high boots/heels will attract looks. :)

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Yikes! It's been a very long time since I walked in 5" heels and don't miss them a bit. Driving while wearing heels should become natural, even stick.

The husband and friends when outside of meetings like to frequent gay or lesbian bars. They find that no one bothers you unless you open up first. Then, everyone becomes very friendly.
Don't feel bad about being read easily, not many nervous, single women enter a gay bar.

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Dear Eileen, I am wearing them right now, and they are the most comfortable but that's because they fit all up to my knees, so there is more "support". I found them on eBay for just 19.50, used only once to try by previous owner, absolutely no "use" wear. I grabbed them real quick because of the price and looks, now I just need some clothes to go with it.

Well this young lady is going to have to go shopping again soon. I think I will shop "en Femme" this time.

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Hi Ms Erin, it is possible to drive a stick with heels, ( any size heels ), most of the time you are using the ball of your foot to push the clutch in anyway. It's all in positioning.
I am glad that you were able to get out and test the waters. It does get easier. Keep going girl. *-*
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Some vehicles are easier to drive in heels than others. I had no problems driving my Merc Tracer in heels, but the Crown Vic I have now is a little harder.
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Hi ladies. Today was my second day out, but much better then the first time. With no nervous, and confident, I went to Rainbow and Ruby Red to buy a few things. My makeup was better, not perfect as I wish, but better.

To top it off I went to McDonalds and ordered a sandwich.

So great to be "en Femme".

Nite nite dear's.
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When it comes to your makeup time and practice until you find that look that you really love ``5
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SilverLady(SO) wrote:Donna -

Is Babe's still around (Carytown area)? Lesbian hangout, Virginia and I have been there several times and once with our own S. Lisa Smith . . . food is very good, reasonably priced, and the local entertainment ('Bucky') is memorable.


- SL
I had a blast that night!!! Bucky actually thought you were the cutest!!!!
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