Aren't we all unique??

Virginia · Post by **Virginia** » Fri Aug 26, 2005 1:38 pm

My friend Brandi, who most of you know is going to have her SRS surgery the week of Sept. 10 in Miami, met another TG girl on the web and they really hit it off (she is a truck driver, living in Nashville). She and her boyfriend are driving in this week-end to see, Brandi. We just found out she is allergic to cats and Brandi has two, so they are getting in about 2:00am Saturday morning, so I am going to meet them and bring them to my home, then after Brandi finishes her paper route Saturday morning she and her son will come here as well. Saturday night two of my CD'ing sisters, who help found our support group,"Blue Ridge Society" are coming over for supper.
Are we humans a unique group or what?? Think about it: three CD's; a TG that drives and 18-wheeler and "her" boyfirend who also drives a truck; my friend, Brandi a pre-op TG and "her" son! All under one roof and loving each other and having a good time in each others company!!
It is just - just - wonderful!!!
I will not dress - why?? well I won't go into any great detail, but you are all intelligent enough to understand when I say, it tends to stress Brandi and I can sense it! You say, but she is a pre-op TG, yes, but she is a woman, always has been, just born with the wrong equipment and we all know how GG's seem to have trouble getting their minds around us anyway!
What do you think? I will be depending on you for help later as things change with Brandi and my divorce - I just know you all will be there for me and it gives me such comfort!
Love ya all!!
Virginia

Beauty · Post by **Beauty** » Fri Aug 26, 2005 1:45 pm

Hi Virginia,

I hope you have a great time.

I understand about helping with your divorce and us being here for you, but do you think Brandi is going to go stealth after her sex change surgery? It's the only thing I can think of when you say you'll need our help after she transitions.

I hope you have a great time this weekend and you know you can count on us to give you a shoulder when you need it.

Beauty

Virginia · Post by **Virginia** » Fri Aug 26, 2005 9:22 pm

Thanks for your reply, Hon!!
No I won't need any help with my divorce - I have gotten some input from some friends that are lawyers and this guy does not have the most sterling reputation and how he got his law degree with such diminished intelligence has also been questioned. You know in the state of Virginia unless it is physical abuse or worse, she is gonna get half regardless so I will deal with that.
Brandi is another story. I want her to "spread her wings and fly away." After her surgery. She will be physically a woman and as cute as she is, she will have the guys beatng her door down. The last thing she will need is me standing around and her having to say. Oh, and this is my very good friend and he's a crossdresser." Plus I can even now sense that my crossdressing puts stress on her! I know it sounds strange, and it took me a while to understand it, but it finally dawned on me that she was much more comfortable around me when I was "en drab." And I think it only fair that I not put that burden on her, now!
I just am not sure how she will react when I kind of "shove her out of the nest" so to speak! She is doing good now, she has enrolled in the local junior college and is taking some classes, but she seems to use me as a "security blanket" whick is quite all right - now!
Virginia

Gelinda · Post by **Gelinda** » Fri Aug 26, 2005 10:13 pm

Virginia: I am only a state away. So if you need me just say so. I will be there as soon as con humanly be.

I am not going to say I understand Brandi and the way she feels about you and the changes she is going thru. It shows your personality so well in the way you handle Brandi and so many others on this forum.

Just know we are your sisters and are here when you need us.

Gee

Loretta Ann · Post by **Loretta Ann** » Sat Aug 27, 2005 12:28 am

In part Virginia wrote: I can even now sense that my crossdressing puts stress on her! I know it sounds strange, and it took me a while to understand it, but it finally dawned on me that she was much more comfortable around me when I was "en drab." And I think it only fair that I not put that burden on her, now! I just am not sure how she will react when I kind of "shove her out of the nest" so to speak! but she seems to use me as a "security blanket" whick is quite all right - now!

Hi Sis,

Although I could be wrong I suspect that the reason for her being more comfortable being with you as a male. Is; due to you being a muscular power lifter, who presents as being one not to mess with. If I am correct she is probably counting on your protection as she enters life as a woman. And I suspect that she might be prone to fall apart should you push her away at that time.

Virginia · Post by **Virginia** » Sat Aug 27, 2005 8:27 am

Thanks Sis,
These are the things that help me out because the girls here can see things a lot different than I can because I am right on top and sometimes can't see the "big picture." I must tell you, I am sure that you all have figured this out, there are a lot of other things going on with Brandi that I don't feel comfortable in posting all the gory details here.
Gee,. your a sweetheart! Thanks for saying that and I know that you would be here if I asked you, hopefully it won't come to that! I just need to see some other interpretations so that I have options. You know to me this, like all of life, is like a chess game and as long as you have a move you are not in "checkmate!"
As of this morning, no calls, so I don't know if her friend ever left Nashville to come here so it is just wait and see - at least it gave me an excuse to become a domestic goddess and really make sure the house is nice and clean!

Love you all!!!
Virginia