Baby Step Progress!

Carla L · Post by **Carla L** » Wed Apr 25, 2007 10:13 am

A lot has happened in the last weeks. I haven't posted as much, I've been very busy.

Just had my 6th anniversary. I bought my wife a new diamond ring and she bought me a 120.00 gift certificate to a spa. i'm going to get a full massage and a private makeup lesson!

On the night of my anniversary my wife asked me if I wanted to wear my forms to bed. I jumped at the chance, putting on a nice bra and a slip. She asked me a little about what other clothing I had, because she liked the slip. I didn't go into the clothing, but she also asked if I had a wig. So.... she knows more, but has not seen me in all items. Occasionally I will wear the forms and bra now, just so she gets used to it, plus it may prompt her to ask me more.

I'm loving this!

Post by **DonnaT** » Wed Apr 25, 2007 10:42 am

Sounds promising Robyn.

Lisbeth · Post by **Lisbeth** » Thu Apr 26, 2007 5:08 pm

Good for you! Good for both of you. I'm in a similar situation and my wife is getting used to the idea, slowly but surely. When I first told her I came on much too strong and scared her but we've gotten over that initial "shock" and have been baby-stepping ever since. It's working out just fine. She still doesn't know where I'm "going"with all of this now that I have the freedom to dress a lot more. I tried to explain that, as Virginia puts it,it's a "A magical mystery tour". It's not about a destination. It's all about the trip itself.
My wife found my breast forms very interesting. She likes them! She jumped on my lap last night and started playing with them. ( I was wearing them at the time.) She said that they feel real. I was loving every minute of it!
Anyway, it's great to read about your progress. You're doing just fine, one step at a time.

Love,
Lisbeth

Carla L · Post by **Carla L** » Fri Apr 27, 2007 8:07 am

Lisbeth,

Thank you so much for the comments. Sounds like it is going very similar to what you are saying. My wife also played with my forms and thought they felt real. I really enjoyed that, the idea I had them on without fear of what her thoughts were.

She questions me now and then, mostly about if want a relation with a man. I don't, and I reassure of that often. I often mention the SO on this forum, as a support for her. One day I hope she will join, then I will feel free.

I am really enjoying my life right now.

Virginia · Post by **Virginia** » Sat Apr 28, 2007 6:23 pm

Robyn, you and Lisbeth are doing soooooooo good! I may have missed it, but have you invited your wives to read or join the forum??? Just a thought!
If I can wax philosophical and I am sure that you would have considered it, but when your wife touches your breasts when you are dressed, well girls you have to put yourself in their place and remember, baby steps!!! If you were to be in their place, think lesbian! What I am trying to say is that has got to be going through their minds. Maybe of little or no concern, but you can pretty much be assured the thought is there. You know them better than anyone else but just be aware, not that they would convert --- hell, we are not much more than male lesbians anyway

I am so happy for you and just try an keep the roller coaster as flat as possible!
Love ya,
Virginia

Carla L · Post by **Carla L** » Sat Apr 28, 2007 7:03 pm

No one is home but my wife and I this evening. I am going to wear my forms again, a different bra than the last time. She told me the bra was too big before. It was my size, but I guess all bras fit differently.

Believe it or not, a bra I bought a Meijer, off the wall brand, is made of nylon, really thin. It is my favorite. My nipples protrude the fabric and you can just make them out when I wear a blouse, but not in a slutty way. I really like it.