How often are you dressed en femme?

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How often are you dressed "en femme"?

100% I am living it and loving it
0
No votes
80-99% I would love to dress all the time, but don't
9
16%
50-79% Hey? This is a lot of work
8
14%
20-49% I love it, but time is hard to come by
15
26%
10-20% I don't have privacy very often
11
19%
1-9% No one knows yet, or only my SO
10
17%
I only wear lingerie under my regular clothes
5
9%
 
Total votes: 58
Stef
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Post by Stef »

Hey Beauty!!

Thanks so much!! I take alot of pride in my site and when I first started it, it was all about me me me but as time past I started to realize that I had a wonderful tool in which to help others. I try to keep it as current as possible.

Did you get the Fashion Note? I love that wig! I have 3 of them in different colors.

Back to your question, I have a 9 y/o son who I have full custody of. He is bi-polar and suffers from clinical depression. This child has been through more in his short life than most people have to endure in a lifetime. His mother has not had any contact with him since he was 4 1/2. Prior to that her contact was limited to popping up every 2 or 3 months and then disappearing again only to kipnap him and carry him off for 4 days with no one knowing where they were. Then my second wife abused him. (why we aren't together anymore)

It's my feeling that having the one constant in his life (me) dress as a woman is probably more than he can handle. Plus I have a very very dirty job and work long hours so by the time I get home from work, help with homework, fix supper, do laundry, clean house and get my son in the tub and the ready for bed I'm just too tired to get pretty! :)

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Stef
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Post by Jessie »

I post 50 to 79 ( I belive I am more closer to the 50 however). As I am usually always dressed while I am at home. (yet I when I am away I am wearing panties and sometimes bra so I do not know where that fits in) And since I spend so much time at home I figured that this was good split for me.

Jessie
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Post by Elizabeth »

Hi Ladies,

This has been really fun so far. Not at all what I was expecting. I also really like the explanations.
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Post by Cami »

Don't really dress much here about 2% of the time maybe. Mostly because I have no where to really go and you can only do so many Photo shoots. And for each Pic session I, of coarse, have to have to buy a new outfit each time. Allthough, after the Nashville trip I kinda have the "Bug".

LOL @ Stef, I totally understand the make-up costs......now. Of coares Stef was the one who taught me how to hide my beard (Also very dark).

And yes Beauty, Stef's site is full of info. I too have bought some of her wigs (Star Struck is my Fav) and Love them to death. She's also coming out with a video I believe, Correct me if I am wrong Stef. Her site is a must for those needing info. And if you are looking to get out more take a look at her "Nashville Night Life"
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Post by Erica Shade »

Unfortunately only 1% for me. I live through you sisters.

Nuff Luv,

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Post by Caroline »

Hi Stef,

I didn't realise that was your site, but now you mention it I have to admit that your atavar has a striking resemblance to the attractive 'young thing' on the home-page.

Great site, I visited it some time ago, and learned a great deal. I even think I sent you an e-mail saying that, but I'm happy to repeat myself here.

Regards,

Caroline.
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re how often am i dressed en-femme

Post by Phylis Anne »

my dearest sisters at this writing i am fully dress ed as i work on a route and i am up early so when i get home i can be my femme self till everyone gets home .i also voted that i am dressed 90%of the time whether be it wearing my lingerie under my drabs or as now being fully atired in my skirt and blouse and a nice pair of high heels for me being not enfemme is pure torture and i cant wait to put on my girdle and nylons .your loving sister phylis anne @@9@@ ``5
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Post by Stef »

You go Phylis!! Have fun girl!!

Thanks Caroline! I take alot of pride in my website, it's therapeutic for me.

Yes Cami, I shot a Video about a month ago on how I do my makeup. I was lucky enough to be at the right place at the right time to have been given the opportunity to make it. It should be ready about mid August/ early September.

Hugs,
Stef
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Post by Caroline »

Stef wrote: Thanks Caroline! I take alot of pride in my website, it's therapeutic for me.

Stef
Hi Stef,

And being here is therapeutic for me, too. I only wish I was smart enough to produce such a brilliant and professional website as you, but the trouble is I can hardly drive a PC, never mind anything more fancy. It's also really good that what's therapy for you also gives so much help and pleasure to others--it did to me, anyway; keep up the good work, girl. :)

Hugs,

Caroline.
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Post by Virginia »

Stef,
Thanks Honey for all the info on your site. I will definitely be using a lot of your info.
Love,
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Karen Marie
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dressed enfemme

Post by Karen Marie »

totally enfemme not as much anymore.usually 2 to 3 times a week.
if you count shorts ,capris, shoes and socks, jeans then quite often.for
me it's getting to be a lot more about feeling femme that going all out
to look it.
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Post by Stef »

Deborah wrote: I will definitely be using a lot of your info.
Thanks so much Deborah!!!

There have been times when I wondered to myself why I worried so much about my site. It's girls like you who make it worthwhile!!!!

Thanks again and HUGS,
Stef
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Post by Eloise Goth »

I dress every day, but not all day as I have to go out to do this and that, though I wear lingerie every day...havent worn male underwear for years now!!
And you thought I was dead.
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Post by Ahzz »

I can't vote because the descriptions don't match with how often I dress up. While I only dress up in the evenings a couple times a week I am mostly comfortable with myself being dressed up.

Maybe we could split this survey into two parts? percent of time spent dressed up and your compfort level in a second survey.

Just an idea. :)
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Post by SophieLawson »

80-99%

I think if everyone knew and I didn't care what anyone thought I would wear girls clothes, dresses and skirts, 100% of the time. Maybe I wouldn't do my makeup all the time, but deffo like too. Maybe one day :)

Sophie xx
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