first time out in my new skirt & with a purse
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JoAnnDallas
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Re: thanks for replying
IMHO getting out enfemme, or enmale for the FTM's, no matter how you do it is 90% mental attitude and how that comes out in your expressions, body language, and interactions with others. Others comfort level and acceptance begins with yours. And a smile is a great start and ice breaker.Stephenie G wrote:... & i'm not sure its its just my attitude but i always smile at everyone
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I am a physically male person that likes to wear feminine clothes at times.
Just trying keep a balance for my self along with keeping my wife and kids in mind.
I am a physically male person that likes to wear feminine clothes at times.
Just trying keep a balance for my self along with keeping my wife and kids in mind.
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Stephenie G
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body language
Yes Kimberly i no think your right about attitude , body language & how we interact with others .People sense our comfort , in fact i think i must be doing well in body language because even the gg' s with their children don't even flinch lately which is a surprise to me & recently while out on another shopping trip the Sa kept bringing me more & more clothes to try (even though the store was getting full with people waiting to try one clothes & every time she asked to see how it looked & i came out it was one of those stores where once out evryone sees ) there was no dirty looks or comments from the other women. At the register the girl says to me you know i'm kinda jealous that you fill out those capris better than me . so i asked her name & told jessica thanks for all you help . So to others if you want to go out ,go ,& i think you'll find like i do people will surprise you & may even give you many compliments . Stephenie g
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Deidre Taylor
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I agree 100% Lladies. Attitude is perhaps the most important part of going out. Sure you will be "made" by someone, even the best do from time to time but it is your life and a good attitude will generally head off any issues.
I read everywhere about "passing" and I think it sometimes give gurls the wrong idea. When I first started going out into public back in 1979 I quickly learned the art is more that of blending in rather than passing. In other words if you are going to the mall on a Saturday aftyernoon you will look pretty out of place in an evening gown. Watch what the GG's wear and how they act in a situation you want to go out in and try to emulate their attire and I think you will find a lot more acceptance.
I read everywhere about "passing" and I think it sometimes give gurls the wrong idea. When I first started going out into public back in 1979 I quickly learned the art is more that of blending in rather than passing. In other words if you are going to the mall on a Saturday aftyernoon you will look pretty out of place in an evening gown. Watch what the GG's wear and how they act in a situation you want to go out in and try to emulate their attire and I think you will find a lot more acceptance.