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Posted: **Wed Dec 24, 2008 12:15 am**

Hi girls,

Up until last weekend, I hadn't been a girl since late September which is the longest I have gone since I first started dressing in late 2005. The reason is a combination of work, male-related things and at times just not being in the mood when opportunities presented themselves (however brief they were). However since getting a new job and moving and all I have been as happy as a male as I've ever been since discovering Steffie. The urge is still there at times but it seems I can control it (and not it control me). I still can have fun with Steffie though as below illustrates.

With the above still true, I still spent a brief time as Steffie. I drove up North to see family/friends in Philadelphia/NJ/NY area. Most of the time I was male though as my family does not know of Steffie as is true of a lot of my colleagues/friends. I wish I had been able to go to more places such as South Jersey (i.e Atlantic City) but I could barely squeeze in the time I had. Maybe next trip I can.

During my time, I even wore a male suit some of the days in male mode. I actually stopped by one of my TG friend's house in male mode and we watched some of the game (Monday Night Football).

However last Friday/Saturday I did become a woman again. On Friday I went to see a very good GG friend near New Hope who first met me as Steffie a couple of years ago. I drove there as my male self though from Philadelphia and she graciously allowed me to change there to Steffie and we went out to dinner Friday night. I even got to meet her boyfriend both as my male self and Steffie. When Steffie, I wore a teal top/sweater, black skirt and black boots paired with black pantyhose. It was me, her and her female friend who went to dinner. We all had a nice dinner and just all chatted as girls. It was very enjoyable. It was nice to be treated as one of the girls.

I then drove to Queens late Friday and spent Saturday seeing some more GG friends. Saturday afternoon I dressed mainstream (red top, jeans and boots) and I went out for a short while although it was cold. Saturday night though I went out to help celebrate my GG friend's birthday and some other friends joined us at CattyShack, a Lesbian club, including one friend I got to know well during the Transgender project. He interviewed me a few times and we became good friends. For the occasion, I wore my leopard skirt, a black top, black pantyhose and matching leopard heels. I topped the look off with my mink coat. I had a feeling the leopard heels would hurt after a while; so I brought some black boots just in case but they still matched the outfit. Sure enough after a while my feet did begin to hurt; so I switched to the boots and danced the night away. I even tried a drink called a Pink Lady. I don't drink often but when I do I think I will make it my favorite drink. Plus I love pink anyway.

We all had a great time.

MY TG friend came along (the one who I saw earlier in the week as male). She dressed nicely and had on a Victoria Secret Santa hat. A funny thing happened though. While we were watching another game there some guy came up to my friend and started grabbing at my TG friend's behind. Like me, my TG friend is married to a GG and not attracted to guys. Anyway she then remarked to the guy that she was there to watch the game. It seemed to get rid of the guy though. I told her I needed to remember that line if any guy ever did that to me. lol Well a little while later my friend met this GG and was talking to her. I asked my friend if she were going to tell the GG she was there just to watch the game. lol We had a good laugh at that. But then the GG introduced her male friend to my TG friend and lo and behold the male was the same guy that grabbed my TG friend's behind. How ironic! He may have even given my TG friend a dirty look too. lol It was kind of entertaining though. At least now I learned a new line to use. lol By the way for those of you interested in the game, the Cowboys lost (much to my TG friend's chagrin as she is a Cowboy fan). Being an Eagles fan though that didn't upset me. lol

My remaining time until I drove back to NC I spent as male. In fact I was male 8 of the 10 days I was there but I got in some quality girl time. Who knows when my next opportunity will arise? It may not be until February but I do plan to go to New Orleans as Steffie for Marde Gras. But the time spent both in male and female mode was very enjoyable.

Posted: **Wed Dec 24, 2008 2:24 am**

I like those pictures, Steffie. That one of you coming up the stairs is especially dramatic. Very nice looks you've got going.

Posted: **Wed Dec 24, 2008 7:54 am**

Its good to see you are still out and about.
Have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.
Lana

Posted: **Wed Dec 24, 2008 2:33 pm**

Good for you, Steffie.

I'm currently on vacation until just after New Years, and I was planning on taking a few days the following week (after my wife goes back to work) for some quality Erin time. Unfortunately, my boss just resigned, and is leaving 1/15. The good news is that I think I have a shot at his job (at the VP level, no less), but the bad news is that Erin is going to have to wait, possibly a month or more, before she gets to come out.

Posted: **Wed Dec 24, 2008 10:25 pm**

Hi Steffie,

Glad to see you are still around. I have to agree, the shot of you coming up the stairs is really great!

Love,

Virginia

Posted: **Wed Dec 24, 2008 11:57 pm**

Thanks girls. All of you have a very merry Christmas!

Steffie

Posted: **Thu Dec 25, 2008 11:34 pm**

Nice photos Steffie. Thanks for keeping us up to date.

Sharon

Posted: **Fri Dec 26, 2008 8:35 am**

Steffie,
I myself prefer your pic in the night club. Lucky you I wasn't around as I would have to try and pick you up

Posted: **Sat Jan 10, 2009 8:18 am**

Steffie, glad to see you are out and about

Leeza

Posted: **Sat Jan 10, 2009 9:05 am**

Aw! Come on Carol Ann, you know that Jeannie and I fight over you all the time, and now the truth comes out!

Keep you eyes open as one of us may kidnap you!

and anyway, Steffie looks great coming up the stairs!

Love you, your nearly "ex" girlfriend

Virginia

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Short time out after long hiatus

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