My Ladyboy Friend

[RikkiOfLA]

My wife and I enjoy going to our favorite Thai restaurant. The table servers there are mostly cute, demure, petite young Thai girls that are "easy on the eyes."

But there is one waiter there, a slim, 30ish fellow. The first time I went there dressed (after having gone there in male mode for many years) he made a point of complimenting me on how nice I looked. He did that the next few times I went in dressed.

Finally, he admitted to me that he dresses too!

Last night, we went there for dinner. I felt in the mood to wear something DECIDEDLY NOT "dressing like a GG." I have a short white cotton sundress, which I accessorized with taupe ultrasheer hose (a half shade darker than suntan--perfect!) and these KILLER white sandals (very bare, except for a buckled ankle strap, 2" spike heels). Add a rhinestone choker and rhinestone earrings. I wouldn't wear that just anywhere, believe me!

When he saw me, his eyes were just about out of the sockets!
I told him I wore it just for him. So he showed us a couple pictures of himself dressed. Wow, was SHE gorgeous!

I told him about a CD friend of mine who has a thing for cute Asian t-girls. Told him my friend would probably like to meet him. He asked, "Is he single?"

"No, he's not." I replied. His facial expression indicated he was NOT interested.

My waiter friend doesn't miss a thing. I'm proud of him!

[Beauty]

Hi Rikki,

I think it would be the coolest to get to know someone over time and not know they were transgendered and then find out they are like you.

I also think it was cool that you dressed up to go and see him. I'm no GG, but it sounds like something a gal would do. I hope you two become dressing friends and you share how the frienship is going.

That's awesome that the waiter had pictures on him of himself dressed.

I guess what I'm trying to say (or have overstated is) that was an awesome experience!

Beauty

[Anita]

Hi Rikki--
I like hearing an "I do it too" story. It made me think about the subject; this post, and the one about whether we have friends who might also be CDs.

It seems to me that in the short-term anyway, our coming out will just make any hidden CD friends extremely uncomfortable. I will say, though, that I heard some "true confessions" from both men and women that I've told. Their stories weren't about CDing, but they were similiar types of things.

They were showing me that they recognized the risk I was taking by telling them, and they were sharing somethng in return. It's nice when it happens that way.
A

[Josey]

Rikki,

How very cool. I so wish I could meet others here in red neck land. I'm sure there are many others who are "like me" but there seems no good way to meet them without coming out totally, and that's very unhealthy here in North Fla. I guess I just continue on as I have been. Maybe one day, it will happen by accident.