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Taking your picture or having it taken sure does let you see yourself from a different perspective. Mirrors are great for getting dressed but don't tell the whole story. I took some more photos today and I'm fairly happy with my appearance but I can see where I need to practice sitting and standing. Probably walking. At 6ft 190lbs with 3 in heels I make a big gal.
I do work out and still have a good build for my age. Virginia you sure make me envious. You look great.

Wendae,

You are such a sweetheart!!!!! Thanks.

You may wish to purchase some CD's from Denae Doyle. If you are not familiar with her she is a GG, a femininity coach and she has put out several CD's that are excellent in "the basics." How to walk, sit, stand, hand placement, head tilt, enter and leave a room, getting in and out of cars (I suggested she do one on SUV"s ). One of my favorites is how to put on and take off your coat, and with practice it can look oh, so sexy!

Anyway, the website is www.femImage.com and the latest phone number I have is 831-479-1282. She has "coached" some of the biggest female stars in Hollywood. She will also do one on one training, but I would imagine that gets a bit expensive. Evidently this "girly" presentation does not come natural to a lot GG's either.

Another source of feminine training is www.UdefineU.com
It is targeted more toward GG's but it also has some great tips in it as well.

NO! I don't get commissions from either of them, but I have met Denae and she is quite impressive and knows how to make every little move you make look so feminine and sexy!

Love,

Virginia

How true Wendae, photos show a totally different image from what we see in the mirror. I too am a big gal, 180pounds @ 6' 3" with out my three inch heels.
Saw you were fro Tampa, I work in Fort Lauderdale 3 weeks out of the month

Thanx for the suggestions Virginia.

I thought you looked great. Keep up the good work. All of us labor under some disadvantage, but even female movie stars claim that they have figure flaws, so why should we be different.

I added another photo yesterday sitting a little better.

You look great in dresses, but not as great in jeans. Even slim GGs struggle with jeans and I wear them sparingly. I would advise buying the torture device that squeezes your waist, while adding width to your hips and torso. They sell them in all lingerie departments. Buy a size that you can barely endure (remember that beauty ain't convenient) and wear under your dress and top. Then buy a form fitting top that overlaps the dress (belted seater or similar) that will follow the countours of your new, thin, waist. That will give you the curves that men and CDers love.

I have to wear padding, because my butt and waist are not wide enough, as well as the waist torture device, so don't despair- prevail!

I have most of that stuff but didn't have the time to struggle into it for the photo. I'm going shopping this week for some fem jeans for a better fit. Padding is still on my list. Thanks for the nice compliments. Made my day.