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After 2 years I finially got 2 1/2 days of Wendae time. I went 200 mi south on a fishing trip. I wanted to drive down dressed but I need a lot of time for putting on my face. Anyway I got some time to finially relax. God, it felt good! I didn't leave the room while there as it was a small redneck town and it wouldn't be a smart move for me. On my return I drove back home as Wendae and it was a great feeling to be out on the road and free. My only nervous moment was leaving the motel room and walking to my car. I found a secluded parking lot and changed back to drab mode not far from home. I really didn't want to return to the hum drum drab life of waiting for oppertunities to escape. The temptation was to come home and yell "Honey, I'm home"! I chickened out.

Bravo Wendae

I know what a big step that is - I promise you it gets easier. Its funny I never thought of fishing en femme so that's a first for you

I am very glad you stepped out. It takes a lot of courage to "take it on the road." I remember how frightened I was during my first experience outside the closet. However, like me, I think you will find ti difficult to stop and will want to move on to bolder forays.

My perception is that CDers are too critical of their own appearence. Look at the women in your world and you will see that they do not have ideal figures, or faces. Also, there is a tendency for humans to rely on experience when making judgements on sex. When they see a long-haired individual in a dress and makeup, their mind tells them it must be a woman. Obviously, the better your dress and amkeup, the more you validate their judgement.

If this was a "red neck" town, you were probably the hottest chick there!

How was the fishing?

Did you fish en femme or was that in guy mode? It sounds like Wendae mostly stayed indoors.

Is a long time Wendae, but glad you got out. The problem now is you will find it almost impossible to not do it again soon. Hope it is not another two years. Glad you had a good outing.

PS How was the fishing. been in Lauderdale for a year now and not a chance to go fishing yet.

Now that I'm retired it's hard to get away, hence planned trips when I can afford them, which isn't often. My only hope for long periods of time to stay femmed up is for my SO to visit family and leave me at home.
By the way fishing was bad. Only caught catfish and mud fish. Bass weren't cooperative and didn't commit suicide on my line.
I added 3 photos to the gallery. I Need a new wardrobe. Time to go shopping!

Hi Wendae, I know the feeling of wanting to get "out" and once you do it you can't wait to get out again! I found it best for me to be around a lot of people, Sat. Mkts or the mall as they are all busy doing their own thing. I feel as if its not fullfilling if I can't mingle so when I go I leave the house completly en femme and enjoy the experience - and yes some experiences are better than others. It also helps if your wife works weekends once in a while

....be true to yourself: Debbie

Hi Wendae-
Sorry the fishing wasn't so good, but I doubt that it spoiled your trip. No pun intended, but you had bigger fish to fry on this outing. Two years is a long time to wait. Glad you got out.

Great step you have taken. Please continue the same in future. More you do the make up practice better you look.

Wow, two years! That's a long time Wendae. I'm glad you finally had some time to enjoy yourself. I hope the next time isn't quite so long.

Fishing can be exasperating sometimes. Trouble with the gear, trouble with the weather, trouble with the FISH! Why do we subject ourselves to such things is beyond me. (I can't wait til I can go again! )


Thanks for sharing your outing with us.
Hugs,
Kyra

Way to go Wendae,

I am glad you did it! Glad to hear it went well too.

Erica

Wendae wrote:Now that I'm retired it's hard to get away, hence planned trips when I can afford them, which isn't often. My only hope for long periods of time to stay femmed up is for my SO to visit family and leave me at home.
By the way fishing was bad. Only caught catfish and mud fish. Bass weren't cooperative and didn't commit suicide on my line.
I added 3 photos to the gallery. I Need a new wardrobe. Time to go shopping!

I would love to go fishing en-femme but haven't tried it yet