my first time out

MissJenny · Post by **MissJenny** » Sat May 15, 2010 9:15 am

well i FINALLY had my first public outting last night. a buddy of mine where we work at was having some of us co-workers meet him at a local gay club (hes gay) so i decided to dress en femme. on the drive there, i was nervous as i left the house but as i was driving, my nervousness left. so i get to the club but it was dead so we went to another gay club down the street and i had a great time. being dressed en femme, i kinda fit in with alot of the drag queens there however i was dressed more like an average girl at the clubs. i was dressed in a cute denim mini skirt, green hoodie, black cami, and black thigh highs as well as a cute air of wedges (pic of my outfit below). we all walked around at one point and i was in the back, and the next thing i know, some guy puts his hand up my skirt!! i turned around at him, smilled and he gave me the deer caught in the headlights look. i turned around and was rather unnerved as thats something im not used to for one and for 2, im straight so it was uncomfortable. but i guess i looked cute from the rear for him...lol. i got quite a few glances from people, i guess they were checking me out...lol. anyways, we all left and they wanted me to go IHOP with them but i was too tired to go so i drove home en femme all the way with a smile on my face because i had a chance to go out dressed finally and i was actually really comfortable. i wanna do another outting because im now addicted to it. thats about it i guess, thanks for reading!!

link to photo of my outting in the gallery:
http://crossdressers-haven.com/galleria ... fullsize=1

Joselle · Post by **Joselle** » Sat May 15, 2010 10:24 am

Hi Jenny

Congratulations on your first time out

Glad it well for you dear

Hugs

Joselle

Anita · Post by **Anita** » Sat May 15, 2010 11:53 am

Hi Jenny--
That's great that you found a club where there were some drag queens. It's not a given that a gay club will have DQs hanging out there. I notice you were going to be with co-workers, so they don't have a big problem with you being dressed around them--that's a plus.

It is strange to groped in clubs; as a straight male, I had no experience of this at all.

When I attended Trine University in Angola, we would occasionally make the trek down I-69 to Ft. Wayne, as that was the nearest big city.

i drove home en femme all the way with a smile on my face because i had a chance to go out dressed finally and i was actually really comfortable.

Nice to hear that you had a good time.

PhylissH · Post by **PhylissH** » Sat May 15, 2010 12:49 pm

Hi Jenny,
Caution: going out is addictive, the more you go out the more you will want to, so becareful to not get caught in the kid in the candy store syndrome, and take it easy and enjoy your outings

Glad things went well for you. One of my first few times out I had a couple of improper advances and while flattered I told them that I was with some one already and they seemed to be okay with that and treated me ore appropriately.

How did your co-workers handle Jenny or did they already know about her

MissJenny · Post by **MissJenny** » Sat May 15, 2010 1:38 pm

thanks girls!! they had a drag show going on at the gay club we were at and it was fun to watch the girls dance and lip sync. the drag queens all took notice of me when they were going on stage but never said a word to me. oh well. i was surprise that my co-workers didnt care if i was dressed but then again we were at a gay club.

phyliss...they didnt know about jenny but they kinda do.

the girls that i work with that came out all complimented on my how cute my outfit was and asked if someone else picked it out and i proudly said i picked it out myself. that made me feel good that they said i had good taste in clothes

Susan · Post by **Susan** » Sat May 15, 2010 3:29 pm

Bravo Jenny

I am proud of you dear - no stopping you now

HUGS

Susan

Erica S · Post by **Erica S** » Sun May 16, 2010 7:48 am

Jenny, way to go! I am glad you were able to get out dressed!! It sure feels good dressing feminine doesn't it? I wish some of us who live so far apart could get together for a night out some time.

Hugs,

Erica

MissJenny · Post by **MissJenny** » Sun May 16, 2010 8:13 am

thanks Susan and Erica! it really does feel really good to go out dressed! its fun and exciting and if any other girl hasnt done it yet, its really fun!!

Kyra · Post by **Kyra** » Sun May 16, 2010 10:07 am

Glad you were able to go out, Jenny!

It IS sort of addicting, isn't it? Just remember to be careful. Be aware of your surroundings, safety in numbers, etc. I've had nothing but wonderful experiences out in public, but I've heard some horror stories too. It always pays to err on the side of caution.

Have fun, and we're looking forward to hearing more!
Hugs,
Kyra

Absaroka · Post by **Absaroka** » Wed May 19, 2010 6:26 am

I remember going to a Halloween party in a dress and some woman reached up under my dress and fondled my butt as I walked past. We were sort of friends and I didn't feel threatened at all but it was still a wierd feeling, that I had no pants on to keep things private.

Zari

Cindy Louise · Post by **Cindy Louise** » Wed May 19, 2010 4:45 pm

PhylissH wrote:Hi Jenny,
Caution: going out is addictive, the more you go out the more you will want to, so becareful to not get caught in the kid in the candy store syndrome, and take it easy and enjoy your outings

Congratulations on your first time out

by the way I like your choice of clothes. I also agree with PhylissH more time out the more you want to go out, god I miss it now, I must take every opportunity to go out en-femme.

Love,
Cindy

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