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hi ya ladies i know it does for me anyhow , i'm more at peace with it now than i was at 20, now at 47 i feel good about coming home from work and slipping into something a little more dainty it's like having two lives in one, i enjoy both worlds now, my male workhorse and my femme side,get home and get out of my jeans an tee and into a hot tub and let the lady out ! a pair of vanity fair nylon pantys and legs smooth with lotion put on pantyhose sheer vitality an a bra 38c stuff it and a nice slip to slid on a cami over my head and ready for my many dresses or skirts like short yet glad there back! 6'0" 145lbs have long legs and i glad i can still show them, any way glad i can still be both today!! thanks for being here!!!!!

Conie Sue,
It does feel great to release the physical feminie side, but the mental aspect that goes along with it is also relaxing. We see outselves looking at things from a different perspective and analzing things from a feminine point of view and our interest changes. I find myself watching the Home Shopping Network more when they have feminine things on as well as other fashion related shows. Its just great!
Love,
Deborah

Hi Conie,

You're right. Being a male in the daytime is nice. It's also nice to come home and dress femme.

It's better than a glass of wine. Though the two together, sitting on your porch are incredible too.

Beauty

it definitley gets better,especially the physcological aspect
of being feminine.i'm finding that i get more emotional each
year.i certainly cry more.i've really gotten into watching "chick
flicks" with my wife.it gets better every day.bunches of hugs,
karen.

Beauty wrote:Hi Conie,

You're right. Being a male in the daytime is nice. It's also nice to come home and dress femme.

It's better than a glass of wine. Though the two together, sitting on your porch, are incredible, too.

Beauty

     I’ll drink to that!      

lol!!!!

Jamie Ann, what a cute pic!!

to me looking back over my life trying to figure out why or how come god knows? i think the first time was when i saw a pair of panties at two or three and put them on it was all it took.memorey serves it was a pair girls rubber pants with nylon and lace ruffles on the back,at my aunts house, and from then on it was off to a facet of life that no one should deney themselfs of! i still today wear pantys and pantyhose under everything i wear, my wife says what if your in a wreck or get hurt, so what i say you only get one ride on this rock so you might as well enjoy it!! to thy own self be true! and happy other wise you won't make those around you happy. thanks for letting me get that out!

Conie Sue wrote:hi ya ladies i know it does for me anyhow , i'm more at peace with it now than i was at 20, now at 47 i feel good about coming home from work and slipping into something a little more dainty it's like having two lives in one, i enjoy both worlds now, my male workhorse and my femme side,get home and get out of my jeans an tee and into a hot tub and let the lady out ! a pair of vanity fair nylon pantys and legs smooth with lotion put on pantyhose sheer vitality an a bra 38c stuff it and a nice slip to slid on a cami over my head and ready for my many dresses or skirts like short yet glad there back! 6'0" 145lbs have long legs and i glad i can still show them, any way glad i can still be both today!! thanks for being here!!!!!

Oh yeah Conie, it definitely is getting better all the time. It's only been since I was 41 that I finally had a handle on who I really was and what I was all about, and I'm almost 53 now. I really feel that I have had an epiphany of sorts and have turned what I used to view as a negative aspect of myself, into a very positive outlook and view. I truly consider myself special, someone with a definite "gift" that not all men have been fortunate enough to be aware of yet, if ever, and feel that I have the best of both worlds going for me.

I truly believe also that I am a better man overall, because of the ability to embrace my feminine side. I will never view crossdressing and being transgendered as a negative or a liability again.

I don't have your height and lankiness Conie, but at 5'8", 180 lbs, I still have some legs to die for and love to show them off even when in male (?) attire. Eat your heart out gg's and to the gays out there, I say, enjoy the view lads!


Christine

"The Crystal Closet Queen"

hi ya christine amen to that age is wine the older it gets the more robust we get and better looking too oh well ,i'm sure glad your here i turn 48 on the 31st. so it does get better yet !!! love every day a little more

Hi Connie,

I personally believe that things do get better as you get older, for the simple reason that we all gain wisdom and experience in every aspect of our lives.

Conie Sue wrote: hi ya christine amen to that age is wine the older it gets the more robust we get and better looking too oh well ,i'm sure glad your here i turn 48 on the 31st. so it does get better yet !!! love every day a little more

Hey...you hang in there "kid"...the best is yet to be!

We are all a band of sisters, right, turning a popular phrase around that is.

xoxoxoxo,

Christine

i only have one regret, that is it took me so long to accept who and what i am, and not be ashamed of it or think i'm some kind of freak they never had anything like this place when i was growing up. i thought i was all alone in my way of life, but thank god for all of you and this place !! together we can make a differance. my god blees and keep you until then! for those out there who still think nobody understands. thanks again and sweet dreams gals! nity night.

I tend to agree -It does get better as you get older mentally, but physically-- I want my 20 year old hands and face back "Why is it that when you have learned to get the most out of life-Most of its gone".

I want my 20 year old hands and face back

Me too, Needra! I'm starting to see facial lines... and I noticed a couple of greys already! D'oh!!