Fantasy vs. Reality

[Estefania]

I wanted to tell you all that after reading many of the entries on the "ultimate fantasy" posted by Deb, I hope many of you will be able to live those fantasies... I mean, those which are realistic. I would never get to attend High School as a girl, for example. So that would indeed be a fantasy. But for those of you who said you would love to be able to spend a full day out enfemme, go shopping with friends, meeting them for dinner, etc... many of you could change that from "Fantasy" to "Goal". Because those are things that most of you could be able to do, if the stars get to align properly.

Fantasies and dreams are nice to have, sure. But living those in reality is much better. True, you shouldn't sacrifice everything you have to achieve them. But for those of you who are single, or have a supportive wife/girlfriend, most of those things are very, very doable. And there are some scenarios which would make it even easier for those who are very apprehensive about going out because they don't think they are "passable enough"... There are TG events/conferences to which you can attend, and they have shopping outings, and normally are set up in cities/towns where your money will be very well received (so people there is very tolerant at least, and some rather happy to see those events occur).

I really hope and pray you will get those chances to fulfill what now seem to be fantasies. And that sooner than later you can have those as memories of things you were able to do!

Hugs
Gaby

[Hanna]

I had an experience yesterday. I posted on a dating site that I was a CD, and I just wanted a date to see what it felt like to be with a companion. I even offered to go dutch.
So Brian emails me and we chat a bit, and said he wanted to meet me. While chatting he sends me a pic of his D---.
I then said , maybe you should reread my profile and see who, I was and my intentions.
He said he still wanted to meet me. I really didn't think he read that I was a cd.
So we met a a local watering hole, I sat at the bar waiting for him to show up.
He walks in sits down at a table. In a few minutes I guess he figured it was me he was supposed to meet, he waves me over.
We are sitting for a minute or two and then says I thought I was going to be a women. I explained again, it was all in my profile. I said I'm sorry i I disappointed you.
Long story short. We spent two hours together, and a wonderful conversation, had a few beers and dinner.
He couldn't take his eyes off my boobs, I was wearing a push up bra with my water balloons. I said they were not real, sorry, and then pushed them up a little more for him. He smiled and said "take it easy now".

Had to go to the ladies room too pee. When I walked back to the table, -the bar was packed-, our waitress comes over to say to me that my skirt was hiked up in the rear, I thought OMG. I thanked her, and thought I mooned half the folks there. She smiled.

It was a fun evening, hope to see Brian again.

[Estefania]

Hi Hanna. Hey, just curious... did you only type in that you are a "CD"? Didn't use the whole word "crossdresser"? I know that he didn't think you were a Certificate of Deposit or a Compact Disk, but CD maybe didn't mean anything in particular for him or for anybody else reading your profile, unless it was on a cd/tg/ts friendly dating site. Just wondering.

Other than that, yeah, always check both that the skirt is in place and that you don't have any tp stuck in your hose or sticking to your heel or something.

Gaby