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Friday Jacki and I got out to stir up some more trouble. We rented a cheap room for changing then got ourselves all dolled up. I had on my new pink baby glams but didn't have a short skirt to go with it so I was looking a tad bit conservative - for those shoes anyway. Jacki was the really conservative one since she was in slacks.

We first hit a new place (new to me anyway) called Just In Time. We walked in and the place was pretty packed. There was a small dance floor but I knew I wouldn't be doing any dancing tonight. Jacki got a seat at the bar and our night began. It wasn't long before the gentleman sitting next to Jacki offered his seat to me. There's always a gentleman around when you need one. As usual we attracted attention, being the only CDers there, and before I knew it I was being hit on. He was nice but I told him that wasn't my style. He respected that but I think he was too interested to give up that easily. So he stuck around and bought me a couple of drinks. It turns out he's married but he fools around on the side, with men, but is really turned on by CDers. GOD, it's a curse to be so gorgeous! We took some pictures while there. Click HERE to see them: https://home.comcast.net/~julimarie/out ... photos.htm

We stayed there til 2AM when it closed and then headed to Escapades. Jacki found a seat first and I saw an opening at the bar a little further down. I wasn't there more than a few minutes when I turn around to see the same guy from the other place. I guess he doesn't give up easily. I reminded him I was completely straight and he again acknowledged understanding that. He wasn't really bothering me so I didn't make a stink out of it.

As soon as Rudy saw me he said hi and checked to make sure he remembered my drink (he did!) and the night continued. Jacki came over and we talked to other people there. We stayed til closing (4AM) then Jacki says,
Let's stop by the mini mart and see our Egyptian friend. I was game so off we went. We took some pics of us with him that are on the same page linked above. He really seemed happy to see us. I guess we add some spice to an otherwise boring night. We talked for a while then hit White Castle and headed back to the room.

Friday's are tough on me because I'm up at 5AM for work and by the time we got back to the room it was after 5AM Saturday. We tried to get the door key card to work but it just wouldn't. So Jacki had to go to the front desk and get some help. The guy there was the same who checked us in so you can imagine he was a bit surprised to see we were dressed a little different than we were before. He opened the door for us first try. Why is it I can do almost anything in guy mode but put me in a skirt and I can't even open a door?

I was beat and just laid down on the bed. Jacki changed and said she'd drive me home but I was too tired to move. So she said call later and she'll pick me up when ready. I got up around 9:30 still dressed. By 10 AM I was changed and packed to go. The place was about 8-9 miles from my house but it was a really nice day and I wanted to have some introspection time. The walk was great but my wife and daughter were anxious to get me home (we were going to a friend's cabin) and my daughter picked me up about a 1/2 mile from home.

The rest of the day I was flying high. I can't believe the great mood going out leaves me in. It's the greatest high I can imagine.

Our next outing hasn't been planned yet but as far as I'm concerned, the sooner, the better.

Alright Julie!!! Question, doesn't staying up all night give your make-up a real work-out? Glad you are having fun!
Love,
Deborah

Deborah wrote:Question, doesn't staying up all night give your make-up a real work-out?
Love,
Deborah

Deborah,

You hit the nail on the head! I don't know why but as the night goes on it seems your makeup vanishes! I told Jacki when we were getting ready we needed to go a little heavy on the makeup if we were going to take pictures. I thought it was the flash washing us out but it may be just what you said, the makeup takes a beating when you stay up all night!

Next outing I'll do an experiment and freshen it up periodically and see what the pics look like.

Love ya,
Julie

I know I said I wouldn't do out again alone. I didn't plan on it.

Yesterday I had the house to myself. My wife and daughter were in South Carolina and my son was at a friends graduation party and was staying the night. So from about 3:30 PM on I was on my own.

The first thing I did was have some pizza. A girl has to watch her figure you know. Then for about an hour I just screwed around until I told myself "It's time to get this girl dressed!"

I had bought some Epil Stop for men. Don't waste your time or money. It doesn't work at all. Then I hopped in the shower to shave off what the Epil Stop missed (everything!)

I had a certain look in mind. I just bought some new clothes and hoped they would match okay. I also purchased a wig cap and tape to accentuate the eyebrows so I had a lot to work on. After several tries I finally got the taping right. I found out you have to tie the top of the wig cap so it holds the tape in place. After that I did my makeup and got dressed.

I figured I would just spend the evening taking pictures and browsing the web. I did that for several hours but something was missing. Jacki couldn't join me and I was alone. I needed people.

It was approaching 2 AM but I figured Escapades was open til 5 AM. I remembered the stalker last week and I was dressed far more provocatively than last week.



With cleavage and that short skirt I felt I would be like a neon sign saying "Open For Business" but I loved the look and didn't want to change. My need for social interaction was stronger than my fear of a repeat of last week.

When I got there the place was pretty crowded. I found an opening at the bar but no stool. The guy sitting next to me offered his seat but I declined thinking that he might feel I'm obligated to him. Well he starts talking and tells me of this time when some 'dude' he met was in need of some money. The dude says he needs $40 so this guy goes to a cash station and withdraws $40. As soon as the money comes out the dude grabs it and runs. So this guy is pissed. Then he tells me he thinks it was me! WHOA big fella! This is getting wierd! I ask him if the dude was dressed and he says no. "Then why do you think it was me?" I ask. He says he just does and keeps insisting it was me. I finally get fed up with his paranoia and turn my back on him.

When I turn around I see three girls at the bar. Can't believe I missed that! So there's this one, Rhonda, and I am still in total disbelief with the guy's theory and I tell Rhonda. She turns to the guy and reads him the riot act! I mean she tore him a new pot hole! I was really surprised at how she stood up for me especially when we just met. So I thank her and we strike up a conversation. She's totally cool about CDing . She's there with two old high school friends who are hitting it off, lesbian style. She tells me what she likes about me is I'm not a phony. "Too many guys who dress think they have to act like girls. You are just you and I like that." What's funny is all week long I was thinking about working on developing a femme voice. The Lord works in mysterious ways. "Julie, just be yourself!" Thank you Rhonda

While we are talking I see a GQ and Cosmo couple who, in this GLBT bar, are like fish out of water. I sort of feel bad for them because no one is talking to them. He's pretty macho looking and she's just plain beautiful. So when Rhonda gets taken away by a friend I went over to talk to them. He's cool about CDing, so he tells me. She seems to be enjoying the experience more than him. I kid him and tell him I know he's jealous I have the guts to go out dressed. I then look at her and tell her she had better keep an eye on her clothes because they just might start disappearing. Well, you should have seen the look on her face! It was as if I hit a button! She looked at him shocked and then at me. I couldn't tell if it was her fantasy or if he had already done it. I may never know.

All in all I'm so happy I went out. Being dressed is wonderful and all but interacting with people makes it so much more enjoyable. I met some wonderful people who accept me for who I am.

And that's priceless.

Hey Julie

Being *Leading Lady* in your very own *RealTime Movie*

Does it get any better than *That* ???



Love / Marda

Julie,
Proud of you girl!!! I love reading about your "adventures" and your picture is sexy, but conservatively sexy.
Keep the faith, honey!
Love ya,
Deborah

Julie M. wrote:I met some wonderful people who accept me for who I am.

Awww, that's brilliant!

And your pic, Stunning legs girl, you look very sexy Julie, like Deborah said

Sophie xx

How do you get that cleavage??

That was a joy to read and a beautiful pic Julie

Merinda Widget wrote:How do you get that cleavage??

That was a joy to read and a beautiful pic Julie

Ah yes, cleavage! A word that makes a man's heart skip a beat!

Merinda,

You can't imaging how long I have been trying to find the right top and bra to make the cleavage work. I achieved a fairly satisfying look Saturday (picture above) and even got a compliment on it. The bra is very important. The one I was wearing is a 38A. Believe it or not I just saw it laying on the floor near my dresser on Thursday. My wife is a 34D so I know it's not hers and I have no recollection of ever buying it.

Anyway what I did was insert silicone breast enhancers in the cups. I folded them over inside the cup and pulled up all the boob I had to rest on top. Then I made some final adjustments. The top I just bought Friday and it was the third one I tried on Saturday. I love the wrap around look as it seems to hug the body so well. Once I put on the top I knew this was it.

One downside to achieving that look is I want to repeat it again which means wearing the same clothes over and over again. Oh the problems being a girl can create! Now I have to figure out how to get around that!

Jules

That's so great, Julie! I love reading about your nights out...

Plus, you look great! I love your outfit...

Julie , I am not sure what the new avatar has that the last didn't , Iknow the clevage is new( so cute). But your overall look is much more fem then the lastone. Don't ask me what it is but you look great.. Keep doing what ever you are doing and keep them party posts happening........Kristen

Thanks for your reply Julie ,

I have been wondering how you girls get the boob effect , Merinda is a bit too young or immature to be wearing low cut tops yet.

Hi Julie,

I think you look very pretty in your picture! I applaud you for doing the no hose look! Your legs look great!

That picture looks ultra-femme it really does.

That was really weird about that guy, you're right. At least your friend read him the riot act. I wonder in some freaky way if he was just getting you to keep talking to him by making that up? One would think if it were true he wouldn't have talked to you that long, he would have called the police.

LOL about the GQ couple. I think you nailed that one. Funny stuff!

Thank you for posting your going out story. I always feel like I'm there when I read one of your stories. I LOVE EM'!!!!!

One last thing. I love the new avatar!


Beauty

Kristen wrote:Julie , I am not sure what the new avatar has that the last didn't , Iknow the clevage is new( so cute). But your overall look is much more fem then the lastone. Don't ask me what it is but you look great.. Keep doing what ever you are doing and keep them party posts happening........Kristen

Kristen,

This might sound funny but I had just seen the movie "Boondock Saints". In it Willem Dafoe goes undercover dressed as a woman. When I saw how good he looked dressed (he's not exactly the best looking man in Hollywood) I was surprised. I kept looking at his makeup and wonfering how they made him look so feminine. Anyway he gets in a tussle with a bad guy and in the process his wig comes off. I see a wig cap and tape holding up his eyebrows. Well that put me on a quest.

Saturday I'm at Jacki's house and I tell her I'm looking for a place to buy a wig cap. She prints out directions to a place not too far away and I go there. I bought caps and tape for both of us. When I got home I logged onto a website that described the process of taping the eyebrows to open them up. So I experiment for a while and end up taping both up and out (I got some wrinkles from pulling them up). Then I applied makeup and took a ton of pictures! I have the better ones on my website that show the effects of taping better. Here's two of them:



I really liked the effect but I have to admit after several hours it felt like I had a headache. Next time I won't make it so tight.

Julie

Beauty wrote:Hi Julie,

I think you look very pretty in your picture! I applaud you for doing the no hose look! Your legs look great!

That picture looks ultra-femme it really does.

One last thing. I love the new avatar!


Beauty

Beauty,

Thank you. You are always so complimentary! What a kind and generous person you are!

BTW your avatar is fabulous! You look so GG.

Julie