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Hi Girls, I finaly have made to the car and drove shile enfem. Maybe not the most exciting for some but for me it was exhilerating. My evening started out shopping for nail polish,a zipper and thread,a darker shade of foundation, (Brianna's advice) got to the check out with all my girlie stuff and I had no wallet or checkbook. Asked the checkout girl if I could leave it with her,so i could run home and get my checkbook, there was a time I could not of even thought about assistance.
Got all my purchases, and when I got home, I was so tired I went to sleeep on the couch. Woke up 11:15, and thought I would try the new foundation. I shaved extemely close, tried the new make up and then decided to get into a pair of tight western light blue /white striped jeans. Then taped my breats for cleveage, a low cut dark blue top, white cowgirl boots. With a new waist cincher and some tape I had a very good figure. I went out the door, down the outsisde stairs as my boots clicked with evey step, as cars were going thru the alley, I got into my car ( I have been dressing off and on for 40 years,) I have never felt so fem as driving my car , even the way I held the wheel was so fem. I was so nervous and my heart pounding, but what thrill. My next timr won't be until sunday night I will try for a fast food snack. My first encounter, I can hardly wait. Thanks for all your help girls I would of never tried this on my own ..............Cowgirl Kristen yhis is so ccol

wahooo, so you went out shopping dressed up?

Sounds exciting, wish I could do that I've often thought, when you girls go out dressed up in public places, how do you speak to people? Do you put on a girlie voice as best you can, or do you not speak just shake ya head etc or do you just speak with your normal voice?

Sophie xx

Sophie, I use my normal voice (perhaps inflecting it slightly) for the simple reason that I don't expect to fool anybody -- I just assume that whoever sees me reads me. Then, should I actually fool someone, it's a kick!

Sophie, I use my normal voice (perhaps inflecting it slightly) for the simple reason that I don't expect to fool anybody -- I just assume that whoever sees me reads me. Then, should I actually fool someone, it's a kick!

Kristen,
Way to go girl!!!! Ain't it a rush!!!??? After you get a few trips, "under your belt" the heart rate will decline but the rush is always there. As I have said before, during the day when you may be driving around "en drab," take a look at the other drivers, most either have a cell phone implanted in their head or appear to be in some comotose state that even if you were driving a UFO and had three heads most would not even notice! I have driven around malls, just to stop at the crosswalk to let folks pass in front of me and see what if any reaction I get, also driving "downtown," during rush hour is another good way to check responses. You go girl, we are proud of you!!!!!
Love,
Deborah

Sophie,
Anyone that can look as georgeous as you needs only to wink and smile and you will get almost anything you want! As for the voice, for example if I go to a movie, I kind of whisper through the glass to tell which movie I would like to see and that is usually the only voice contact you will have, unless you run into the situation where I had a "cute" young policeman hold the theater door open for me and I again whispered a "thank you!" and a nice smile, I got back from him, "anytime, honey!" Guess I could have been arrested after that for "walking on air." I guess unless you are going to take voice lesson and you are concerned that your voice may give you away, I would practice saying as few words as possible and use either a whisper or a "breathless" response.
Make us proud, honey!
Love,
Deborah

Deborah wrote: I would practice saying as few words as possible and use either a whisper or a "breathless" response.
Make us proud, honey!
Love, Deborah

Thanks Barbara and Deborah, I thought I would whisper too. I've been out before 2 times but it was like late late at night but I know the rush you talk about, it's one of the best feelings in the world isn't it It's kinda like that scared cos you might get caught feeling when we were young.

Sophie xx

Well done Kristen,

It certainly puts you on a high once you get past the nervous stage

Merinda, So how long is the nervous stage? Just kiddin... I was pretty nervous because my landlord lives next door to me, and they are hard to read wether or not they would handle this situation also I work for a school district so I am in contact with kids somewhat, that's the only reason I was nervous. I wish I had a computer to handle a digital camera I would of like to have taken a rew photographs before I went out. I don't think i look as good as all of your pics. I thought I looked good for an old gal......... It was so fun. can't believe how much my driving changed when I was dressed...Kristen

Hi Kristen,

If that is a "Baby step"? I am in serious trouble. That sounds absolutely wonderful. I just could not be happier for you. I can not imagine the exileration you must have felt.

WOOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!

Love always,
Elizabeth

Kristen wrote:Merinda, So how long is the nervous stage? Just kiddin...

Actually a fair question Kristen ,

for me the nerves got worse as the day came near to the point of nearly becoming a wreck and cancelling my first outing, luckely I didn't .
I became relaxed once I had driven out of my area , had a confidence boost when a few people walked past me in the park ,
when I pushed past some GSGs ( genetic school girls ) in a shopping centre I was on a spiritual high knowing that I had passed .

Elizabeth,
It's a baby step for me because I've crossdressing for 45 years or so, this is the first time for me to try to pass a woman, Iv'e worn gitano (verytight )jeans, panties continuosly, washed my car in heeled boots, went swimming in a apartment complex pool(at night ) in a pink lame bikini, ( just one lap) this is years between events.
I think what you've been through, and how you've stuck it out is far more comenadable. But I thank you for you encouagement, it was such a kick.
Merinda,I think it's going to be a while before I go shopping enfem. That must of been elation to the max to be not spotted by gsg's That is so cool. ..............Kristen

Kristen,

Way to go! I can completely understand what you mean about your driving. I know my driving was different.

Women do drive differently from men. I believe they are more cautious and generally aren't too heavy on the accelerator. Of course, times are changing. I''ve seen some women who can be very out of control behind the wheel of the car.

I know that I was really excited about going out. I guess it's pretty much the same way for most of us. The feelings of liberation and excitement are pretty intoxicating.

Just be careful...

Later,

Brianna

PS Did you get my private message?

Hi Kristen

*WAY TO GO GIRL*

Re: Driving ...

"Tous les dames sont les femmes; mais tous les femmes ne sont pas les dames" !

(All ladies are women; but not all women are ladies)

Please drive "Like A Lady". (calm, collected, skilled, prudent, dignified :-)

Love / Marda