having fun now

Mellissa · Post by **Mellissa** » Mon Sep 13, 2004 3:42 pm

Well I'm finally dressed up with my wife knowing i am
It was a bit scary to do but i feel great
We agreed i would lock the door when i'm dressed so the Kids and her self dont walk in on me
I told her if it was ok with her i would dress up tonight she was ok with it
but she's not ready to see me like this
All things come to he who waits
But i think its a great step towards her accepting my dressing
I have realy good hope's for our future and i think she's the best thing that ever happend to me she's soooo sweet i realy realy love her now (not that i didnt love her before)
I think we'll get a stronger marriage in the end

hugs from a happy happy Mellissa

Beauty · Post by **Beauty** » Mon Sep 13, 2004 6:52 pm

Hi Mellissa,

Your patience is GOLDEN!!!

You're right it will pay HUGE dividends in the end.

If you research through the site you'll see lots of articles about how patience has paid off and get support from others on how they did it.

Regardless of all of that stuff I'm hoping you keep up your excellent patience.

Beauty

Kristen · Post by **Kristen** » Mon Sep 13, 2004 9:36 pm

hi Melissa, I think it's great that you are dressing with your wife knowing about it. This has got to be good for you, wife will come around I am sure. Just stay within her boundaries, that will help alot. Hope you are having fun and you find a cheerleading outfit. I couldn't find one for quite awhile , could not afford a new one so I made one, Black and white . It was really my favorite, took forever to sew. had fun with it. .....kristen

Jassmine(SO) · Post by **Jassmine(SO)** » Tue Sep 14, 2004 5:22 pm

Hello Melissa

That is fabulous, absolutely fabulous!! ##oo##

*Hugs & Love*

Mellissa · Post by **Mellissa** » Tue Sep 14, 2004 6:11 pm

thx to you people i got this far so thanks a million to you all big hug
and about the cheerleader thing still working on it
But darn there expensive my wife will blow her top if i bought one haha
maybe ill find one on ebay

Joanna_S · Post by **Joanna_S** » Wed Sep 15, 2004 8:31 am

Hi Melissa !

I think you´ll see the day when she absolutely wants to see you dressed!
My GF was also in a different room reading or doing something else while I was doing my things dressed in the living room. But in no time she said, she wants to see me. I was so nervous when she came to the living room for the first time

but she just sat down next to me, hold my hand and gave me a kiss. I always remember that moment

Joanna

Virginia · Post by **Virginia** » Wed Sep 15, 2004 8:20 pm

Melissa, Honey, just remember our motto: "Small steps, honey, small steps" If and when she is ready to see"the competition" she will let you know. We can only hope she will track on the path of now having the best of both worlds available to her, a guy and then a girl friend and/or sister to go shopping with and share woman to woman! Just don't push it!
Love,
Virgina

SophieLawson · Post by **SophieLawson** » Thu Sep 16, 2004 12:50 am

So cool Mellissa,

My best quote has always been best things come to those who wait, and it is so true!

Hope your having fun and get that cheerleader outfit and post a pic

*hugs*

Sophie xx