progrees is going well

Mellissa · Post by **Mellissa** » Sun Sep 19, 2004 10:04 am

Well it's been about 10 days ago when i came out to my wife
And things are going great
She told me i was more plessant to be around couse i was more happy
and less depressed as i could be from time to time when i was still in the closet
Now i can wear my stockings or pantyhose with highheels in the evening
without her looking twice she said she dont mind aslong i dont wear skirts around her
She still needs to get used to that and so i'll give her all the time she needs
But beeing able to wear my heels around the house at night is kinda libarating never done that
I painted my toenails in a nice pink color (she told me she kinda liked it )
She said i had sexy feet lol in highheels (made mee feel good)

just wanted you girls to know
I feel great

hugs Mellissa

Eloise Goth · Post by **Eloise Goth** » Sun Sep 19, 2004 10:43 am

great to hear, Mellissa...hopefully as your Wife adjusts to it a bit more, you and her can experience the pleasures of shopping together for clothes. (If you dont already do that.)

SophieLawson · Post by **SophieLawson** » Sun Sep 19, 2004 11:01 am

Hiya Mellissa!

That's super cool, so nice that your wife is ok with it! You say she noticed a change in your behaviour, my Sister said the same to me yesterday, I was playing around and she goes, gaaa kev what has gotten into you, this is like the old Kev I know

I feel so much more relaxed around my Sister and Mum now, sounds the same for you too

*hugsssssssssssssss*

Sophie xx

Julie M. · Post by **Julie M.** » Sun Sep 19, 2004 11:51 am

That's wonderful! How nice to receive acceptance so readily. Since I re-emerged things were a bit rockier. It seems my wife responds to my son's reaction which wasn't so great. Things are getting better. Time heals all wounds.

I'm really happy for you and hope I will soon be reading how you are wearing skirts around the house too!

Julie

Amanda Louise · Post by **Amanda Louise** » Sun Sep 19, 2004 2:40 pm

That's great news Mellissa

Lorna · Post by **Lorna** » Sun Sep 19, 2004 2:49 pm

Hi Melissa,

That's wonderful! I'm so happy that your wife is accepting... enjoy!

Jadeanne · Post by **Jadeanne** » Sun Sep 19, 2004 8:20 pm

Mellissa,

Congratulations on acceptance by your wife! We are among the lucky ones.

Giving your loving wife time to adjust is definitely the way to go.

Jadeanne

Needra · Post by **Needra** » Mon Sep 20, 2004 3:10 am

I remember when , my wife and I would paint each others toes. You mightt wanna ask her about it . Its a super femmy rush (its a new cereal) Needra

Virginia · Post by **Virginia** » Mon Sep 20, 2004 7:33 am

Melissa,
Is it not great not to have to "live in the closet?" I will give youi one piece of advice, "things change!" Just keep an eye on her, as GG's can change and acceptance can waiver. If that becomes the case (and we all hope it doesn't). Just remember our motto, "small steps honey, small steps." Just back off and let her, readjust. A word to the wise!
Love ya,
Virginia

Mellissa · Post by **Mellissa** » Mon Sep 20, 2004 4:09 pm

Virgina ,
Dont worry I let her decide on what goes and how fast I just go were it leads me
But to me this already a libiration beeing able to talk about it with her
Tonight she asked how i felt when i wore highheels
I just answerd her that i feel realy good a relaxed when i do i feel like i finaly can give in to the feelings i always had and that the fact that she's ok with it made me feel accepted the way i am and not like some weardo anymore
I also told her i loved her very much and that it means a lot to me that i can do this without having to hide it anymore
So we can be totaly honest to each other and that nothing stands between us anymore
Than she walked out and came back with a another pair of highheels
She told me they were for me and that i could use them
that was the nicest gift she ever gave me now i realy know she loves me as i am
i had to show them of course she didnt believe me when i said i could walk on those shoes haha little did she know i walked rather good on them ofcourse i had some practice lol 21 years now hahaha

Mellissa

Virginia · Post by **Virginia** » Mon Sep 20, 2004 7:22 pm

Congratulations, girl!!! And most of us love heels too! I start getting nose bleeds at 5", but 3" and 4" seem to suit me! I just don'e like flats for some reason, yes they are comfortable but I will give up comfort for style and appearance.
Keept the faith girl and bt the way tell your SO, Virginia said hello and thanks for being there for one of our sisters.
Virginia

Kristen · Post by **Kristen** » Sun Oct 03, 2004 2:19 pm

Mellissa, give your wifeie a big hug from all of us. You sound so happy and your wife sound like a little sweetie. i'm so glad that you are out to your wife, nothing better than truth for a good relationship. good luck to you and your wife. CONGRATULATION!!!!!!!!.....kristen

Paula · Post by **Paula** » Wed Nov 03, 2004 8:03 pm

wishing you and your wife the very best. I hope dresses and shoping are soon to come for the two of you. My wife says I'm not so bitchy after I've had a chance to dress. and it's true I seem to be more at peace with myself. After a good day in a dress. LOL paula

Elinor · Post by **Elinor** » Fri Nov 19, 2004 4:52 pm

Mellissa and wife god bless.

I wish you both well.
Its better I would think that a guy likes to wear a skirt now and then than cheat with another woman.
The man has turned to drugs, drink or become violent.
Many women who have/have that problem would perhaps belive better my man liked to wear a skirt than this.