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dressed up for my wife for the first time

Posted: Sun Sep 26, 2004 5:36 pm
by Mellissa
Well I had a great evening,
My wife told me i could wear my thing tonight when the kids were of to bed
I asked her if that ment she wanted to see me dressed up
She sayd yes i want to see you dressed up i said maybe i show you a pic fisrt so the shock wont be that big
She said no pic's i want the real thing,i must have asked her about 25 times if she realy was up for it and if this is what she wanted or if she was just doing me a favor
She told me that it was ok with her
So i started dressing up out of the livingroom and as soon as i was finished i asked if i could come in she said that it was ok
so there i was fully dressed in my new outfit
She smiled a bit first but after a while she got used to the idea and we had coffee and watched a movie together (signs with mel gibson)
We talked a bit and she told me i looked rather sexy in my skirt and that i had nice legs ( biggest compliment i ever got)
She said that i could dress up from now on when the kids are in bed and that she will tell me when she wants the old me for a while
So you can imagine this night was Bliss and awesome now i realy felt ok
She even complimented me for sitting like a girl and walking like a girl
she tought i would hang on the coutch like a guy but then in a skirt
she was surprised i sat down and crossed my legs like a real girl
overall it was a great evening and we just had fun drinking coffee and watching a movie

I'm realy happy now that i can do it in front of her couse its better when you share it
afterall were married for almost 12 years and we share everything and now also my femme me

Big Hugs and love Mellissa <oooo>

Posted: Sun Sep 26, 2004 5:43 pm
by Sandi
Mellissa ``5 girl. that is great. *-* I am so happy for you. bet you are reallyon @@9@@

Posted: Sun Sep 26, 2004 6:07 pm
by Calina_Leigh
Congradulations. I am happy to hear that your wife is starting to accept this part of you. The only suggestion that I have is to take it slow and be patient. This is a big step for both of you and I hope that it will not be the last.

Posted: Sun Sep 26, 2004 8:04 pm
by Virginia
Mellissa,
I am sooooo happy for you =D> =D> =D> ! I assume she took the lead in asking you to dress? I would even bet that the feminine moves came pretty natural (it does for me when I am dressed), sitting, walking. Way to go girl!!!
Virginia

Posted: Mon Sep 27, 2004 2:46 am
by Joanna_S
Hi Mellissa!

Congratulations! =D> I´m very happy for you and your wife. Nothing feels better than compliments from your wife or gf. In my case, her approval cleaned the air and CDing felt better than ever.


Joanna

Posted: Mon Sep 27, 2004 2:55 am
by Julie J
I'm so happy for you Mellissa, enjoy the opportunity you are being given.
Your wife sounds wonderful, let things occur at her speed, not yours.

Luv Julie J =D> =D>

Posted: Mon Sep 27, 2004 4:20 am
by SophieLawson
Mellisa that is so cool,

Maybe she will help you with makeup and stuff, that would be super cool, she could take photos for you as well :)

Was you nervous? I think I'd be totally nervous, well done Mellisa!

*hugs*

Sophie xx

Posted: Mon Sep 27, 2004 10:06 am
by Mellissa
Virginia ,
Yes she took the lead,she told if i wanted i could dress up iasked her if it wasnt to soon but she was ok with it i let her decide on the speed on how things happen from now on

Sophie,

Yes i was very very nervous i was sweating and stuff didnt know how she was gonna react to it
But she was realy nice and even gave me some compliments she so nice and sweet I'm one lucky man/girl (lol)
She's everything to me


Mellissa <oooo>

Posted: Mon Sep 27, 2004 12:07 pm
by Rebecca_Lynn
That is fantastic news. *hugs*

I can understand the wonderful feelings my SO is being quite understanding with me and my CD'ing. It is such a great feeling to know that the one you love accepts you for you.

=D>

Posted: Mon Sep 27, 2004 3:18 pm
by Elizabeth
Mellissa,

I am just so happy for you, I don't have words. You have just lived my dream. I hear a sense of relief in your post, and I can not imagine the relief you must feel having this behind you, and it having an excellent outcome. I am just so proud of you and hope things continue to go well for you.

Love always,
Elizabeth

Posted: Mon Sep 27, 2004 4:13 pm
by Lorna
Melissa, that is so awesome!! The two of you can now have a lot of fun girls' nights together. =D> (--)

Posted: Tue Sep 28, 2004 8:16 am
by Julie M.
Melissa,

That is so wonderful! You are a very luck lady! You had better take good care of your wife or someone might steal her from you.

Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2004 8:05 am
by Beauty
!!!yes!!! :)

Good for you!!! =D>

If she just started accepting make sure you only go 25 miles per hour for several months. Even 30 miles per hour is dangerous with a wife who's just beginning to accept our CD'ing.

Beauty

Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2004 11:18 am
by Jassmine(SO)
Hey Melissa ..o)..

That is most excellent news!!!! WHOO HOO!!!!!!!!! ##oo## ..^.. *-* \:D/ ##3## (--)

*Hugs & Love* @->->- *^^*

Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2004 8:03 pm
by Kristen
Melissa, I can't tell you how happy I am for you and your wife. To be able to share your inner most feelings with your wife has got to an elation beyond reproach. I congratulate you on your honesty and your courage. This could be the best thing that has happened to your marriage. Sitting around with her, having coffee, relaxing and watching a movie, I like that a whole lot . Hope you two continue the fun. ....kristen