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Hi All:

Its been a while since I've actually been on. The reason is largely because I've been incredibly busy. But i'm on now because in a few weeks (veteran's day weekend) I'll be able to dress up again.

But, I'm sure there are many of you like me, who, when dressed up, really have no where to go. I don't particularly feel like going to a night club. And, furthermore, I'm not really looking for a sexual encounter. It's just one of those 'let's hang out, have a glass of wine, coffee, smoke, etc and chit chat while dressed up--no pressure and no worries'. There needs to be such a lounge. Because you know, sometimes its just a drag to be dressed up and nowhere to go!

Jill

Hey, Jill,
glad your back. I like to go to afternoon movie matinees. It is not crowded, you can park as close or far away from the theater as you want, you don't have to stand in line, there is very little contact with others and in some cases its like having your own screening room. I have had some interesting situations arise however, like one of my first outings was to see "Cold Mountain" There were maybe six or seven people in the threater when in walks four GG's. Guess where they choose to sit? Yes, in my row and one sit right next to me! Two plus hours of making sure every move I made was feminine and still try and enjoy the movie. Guess I pulled it off as she just smiled at me as we were putting on our coats to leave. And my biggest achievement, as I was leaving "The Last Samari." Some "older" GG was sitting in an aisle seat and as I walked by she looked me up and down and then said "Slut!" Made my day, I had on a red silk blouse and a knee length slightly tight gray skirt and three inch heels,- very conserative I thought! It was wonderful!!!!
Virginia

I dunno either, I wanna go out too, I was thinking just a walk upto the park and then sit in the park for a lil while I suppose

Sophie xx

Hi Jill glad you are back , Well for me it's business as usuall. I dress nearly everyday and the wife and I just carry on as if nothing is different. Yesterday I raked and burn leaves in the front yard, and worked on the front porch. But remember I was dressed for the job, pants and a t-top. I will anmit it does get warm under a wig. Carol Ann

Hi Virginia,

Besides being a real compliment, the "Slut" encounter is really funny! I was thinking, however, that you should have smiled at her, and in your deepest voice said, "Why thank you!". Then you could have seen a priceless expression on her face! LOL!

Missy

Jill,

I agree CDs need some place to go. Is there a support group in your area?

I have been to the movies once while dressed. I was with two other CDs from my support group. One was en femme, the other in drab, so it looked like one gentleman and two ladies out for the evening. We also went out to dinner at a Thai restaurant. All in all, it was a nice evening.

The park can be nice during daylight hours, but I don't think I would walk through the park at night.

Sharon

Hi Jill, good to see you back, You are SOO right, there really need to be places where we can go with no pressure. Living in a backwards area like I do, really gives one a lot to think about before venturing out. Nothing but unemployed loggers and fishemen around here. Hope you can find someone local to hook up with, and enjoy some outings. Please be careful tho' we all know how many weirdo's there are out there.
BTW, just checked the updates on your page, WOW, You look great! (as always) Huggs, Bonnie

seems as though a lot of people have the same problem I do all dressed up with no place to go. hell I can't even go to the movies the nearest theater is 60 miles away. but the north maine woods is my back yard. I try to make the best of everything. would be nice to have another cd to do something with. some day maybe

You know what I think would be a good idea, we should start a thread on where you live and see if anyone lives around you. I found a lady on this board who lives a few hours drive away. Cann't wait to meet her face to face
Carol Ann

HI all, I too am looking for things to do while "dressed". My wife is very supportive but being from a small southern town in the south she is very apprensive about going out. She is affraid someone will try to start trouble. I've told her that we can avoid that by going to places where trouble makers don't go but she is still scared. We live about 45 miles west of Nashville so that is where we could go but I really want to find some place where she will feel very relaxed and truly enjoy the outing. As for me I'll go anywhere that she would like to go just as long as she has the most fun cause if she has a good time then I'll have a good time. I want her to know that my CDing is something that we both can have fun with and I want her to always be a part of my life in every way no matter what we do. Our kids are grown and gone and it's just her and I now and I wish to get back the wild and crazy times we had together befor the kids came along. Any ideas for fun things for a husband and wife to do while her man is being a girl ? Come on Ya'll help me out here. I want her to have a blast with this just as much as I will. Thanks in advance, Joe

Check out www.tvals.org
This is a very active group in Nashville and I know they would welcome you and your wife. I know on eo fthe members and they are a great group to hang out with.
Let me know how it goes.
Virginia

Thanks Virgina, I'm going to check out their web site now. Love Ya', Joe

I feel blessed I go to pay bills,grocery shopping,go to threft stores or where ever I feel like gong to while dressed. I have no problems with people or the places I go but then living in dallas,tx no one really cares what u wear.

Hi Joe,

On of your members, Stef, is from TN. Send her an e-mail. I believe she goes to a TG'd club in Nashville. In this club you will find women who are visit and feel comfy when inside.

Beauty

Thanks Beauty for the reply about Stef. I e-mailed the Tn. Vals yesterday about their up comming meeting on the 10 and I'm waiting for a reply. I'll keep Stef in mind and if I don't hear from them soon I'll contact Stef. I may go ahead and contact her anyway just to have someone local to chat with from time to time. Thanks again, Love Ya', Joe