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*I dont understand what happened to the original post so I'll try again***

It was an experience I wont forget , the day started with a quick photoshoot in the carpark , Jan posed en-drab and handed me a bunch of roses while colleen took a few photos .
The venue was very intimidating to say the least , it is a bondage/swingers club so we were privilaged to see a few people getting whipped .
This was not my scene and I considered leaving at that stage but we seemed to stay in our separate groups somewhat , I made friends with a few of the girls and talked for hours .
Jan and I took many photos , I met an interesting girl " Tanya Fox " who brought along heaps of catalogues as she imports fancy shoes , she also spoke of a TG fasion parade being proposed.
The other girls were lovely to talk to ( Nicole being the quiet one ) , we excanged E-mail addresses before leaving after 6 superquick hours.
I had a great time with the girls but as I said " the club itself was intimidating". ( I suppose it was an experience )

I will go out with them again but at a different place , anyway I'm happy I went..

BTW I enjoyed being the smallest girl.

Ahhh Success, how sweet.

That's great Merinda. And with you being the smallest, your school girl outfits should fit right in

Hi Merinda,

Well, I am just so happy for you. I can tell by the tone of your post you had a great time. I am just so glad everything went so well. I am sure the S & M thing was intimidating. I am not sure I would have stayed, but the way you make it sound, I probably would have stayed, just like you did. I can tell by the way you said time went by so fast, that you had a great time.

I look forward to hearing about your future adventures.

Love always.
Elizabeth

Hey, it's always valuable to stretch yourself! Glad you had the courage to stick around, and glad you had fun. Honestly, us kinks are harmless. Really we are. Unless you want us to be...

Hi Merinda--
Jan went in drab, while you went dressed? I'm happy you got out, but that particular venue? Well, I guess no one was concerned about your mode of dress--too much else going on there!
A

That's awesome hon! Sounds like you had fun!

Would you have any pics to share?

Merinda Widget wrote:The venue was very intimidating to say the least , it is a bondage/swingers club so we were privilaged to see a few people getting whipped.

I think I’d rather see a few people getting whipped than have a few people see me getting whipped. But it sounds like it turned out to be an interesting experience.

Hi Merinda,

So glad you had a good time.
It must be lovely spending time, with all the other girls.
Loved the photos.

Charlotte xx

Merinda,
Sounds like you had a blast !

I checked out the pics in your gallery and it looks good. Thanks for sharing.

Now a few days later

withdrawal has set in , yesterday I was feeling flat , down and discontented

I was scared at first on Sunday but got used to the place and didn't want it to end , 6 hours straight is probably the longest I've been dressed.

I will definately go out again , the girls are discussing future outings at the moment .

Going out socially has caused a bit of tension at home so I doubt if I will go out too often but I will have to work out some sort of planner

anyway , I CANT WAIT !

Hi Merinda,

I'm sorry about the withdrawal. I can understand the feeling. I'm still very happy you had a great time and that you're going to go out again. I'm on a roller coaster in this post of being happy and then kind of bummed because now I also want to say how sorry I am that there's any tension in the house.

Why did you feel flat and why is there tension? (if you feel like discussing it)

I hope things get better and you enjoy your next outing just as much!!!

Beauty

I know what you mean, Merinda, I always feel a bit of letdown after sending Violet out for a turn. It's like anything pleasurable. It decreases after a while, or perhaps you just get used to it. Don't let that stop you from going out again... it's a thrill & a half, isn't it?

Beauty wrote:Hi Merinda,

Why did you feel flat and why is there tension? (if you feel like discussing it)

Beauty

I will call it " post dressing syndrome " , you enjoy yourself so much that when you revert back to your normal (drab) life you find yourself totally discontented with life as a man.
I now have a better understanding of the girls that want to transition , they must go through this 24/7.

There is tension at home when I dress , I did 15 photosessions in 2003 , I did 13 photosessions in 2004 and now in 2005 I made the decision to limit that number back even further.
5 or 6 good social outings will do me fine because I can dress for a longer period than a normal photoshoot , I will no longer need to take my daughter around town because the girls in our social group can take the photos.
No matter how far I trim things back there still seems to be on-going tension between my wife and I when I dress up.

Merinda Widget wrote:I will call it " post dressing syndrome " , you enjoy yourself so much that when you revert back to your normal (drab) life you find yourself totally discontented with life as a man.

I know exactly what you're talking about, hon!

That happened to me right after Halloween. I had so much fun on Halloween weekend that I woke up on Monday feeling depressed. Add to that the heavy contract work, plus the withdrawal that lasted all of November. As many here recall I crashed HARD.

Just remember that whenever Merinda has to be put away, she WILL be back out again!!