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going out

Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 12:04 pm
by Wendy
I apologize for not coming around here as often as before, over the summer the wife doesn't take any classes and I didn't want to chance being found out with me on this site.

I've still not forgotten about this site though.

Anyways, I went out en femme for the first time over the labour day long weekend.

The wife went to a concert with some of her co-workers so I knew I would have at least a good 5 hours to myself.

I went full out, painted my nail, put on eyeliner, and lipstick. I didn't bother shaving (I had abit of a 5 o'clock shadow happening) because I didn't anticipate that I would head out.

So I put on my fav intimates, black panties, tights, girldle, bodyshaper, ... and grabbed a long skirt and sweater from the wife's wardrobe.

And of course my wig.

Since it is sept., it gets dark early, so around 8:30-8:45 pm it was already dark. I thought to myself, what the hey, let's go for a walk down the block and come back.

I peeked out the window and saw absolutely no one up or down the block, so I grabbed a purse from the wife's collection, put on a pair of shoes, and out I went.

I'll admit, I was very nervous. Some thoughts that ran thru my mind were : what happens if I run into someone ? what happens if I have to talk (my voice doesn't actually pass as female) ? what happens if I get made ?

I took another quick look, saw no one and out I went. I actually made it abit further than down my block, but I ran into no one until I almost made it back to my house. I was across the street from my house when this car pulled up and stopped right in front of me.

My heart stopped and I was beginning to sweat hard. I thought to myself "oh my god, I hope they aren't going to ask for directions." I turned my head away so they couldn't see my face and continued to walk faster. Luckily, that car was just dropping someone off who lived at that house. Whew, close call.

After I got home, I had a moment to think about that little adventure and it felt great ! Going out en femme is quite the experience. I then decided to change skirts (something shorter, up to my knees) and went out again. This time I walked abit farther, to a more busier road. I timed it perfect because I walked with the flow of traffic, so cars could only see my behind not my face. No incidents this time, no one stopped and again I ran into no one during my walk.

Overall, given half the chance, I would go out dressed en femme without any hesitation. Some of the things I would do differently is for sure shave. I wore two tights so that covered up my leg hairs (not even noticable). I have contemplated wearing foundation though, but I am saving that when I know I have practically the whole day to myself.

Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 1:48 pm
by Beauty
Hi Wendy,

Sounds like you had fun.

I hope you are one day able to be honest with your wife and not do this behind her back. :^o

I understand that you may be fearful and that's normal. It's just that I always hope that someone will be honest with their spouse and best friend before they find out another way. :?

Gracie

Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 2:42 pm
by Wendy
I agree with you totally beauty, being straight up with her now is better than her finding out the hard way. :oops: :oops:

Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 7:53 pm
by DonnaT
Congratulations Wendy. Many of us have made our first ventures out in a similar way. Scary, but exhilarating!

Posted: Wed Sep 21, 2005 12:28 am
by Anita
Hi Wendy--
Good to hear it went so smoothly. I, too, hope you can eventually tell your wife. It seems especially important if you want to start going out more. Going out opens up new experiences of all kinds, and you will probably feel a need to share them with your wife--but you can't. Yet they effect you, and they can put you through changes that will be hard to understand, if someone doesn't know what's going on.

Consider it, anyway. Pretty please?

Posted: Wed Sep 21, 2005 6:54 pm
by Wendy
Anita wrote:Hi Wendy--
Good to hear it went so smoothly. I, too, hope you can eventually tell your wife. It seems especially important if you want to start going out more. Going out opens up new experiences of all kinds, and you will probably feel a need to share them with your wife--but you can't. Yet they effect you, and they can put you through changes that will be hard to understand, if someone doesn't know what's going on.

Consider it, anyway. Pretty please?
for sure, I do agree with what you girls are saying.

I'm still working up the nerve to head out more, but I guess nerves is getting the better of me right now. We'll see. :) :)