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Hi girls,

Last friday night, I went out to a NJ club with some good friends (Melissa, Josette and Dina). We all had a great time dancing and we met a lot of nice people. There was even someone there that took our picure together. I posted it in the photo gallery. Going out to clubs is still fairly new to me but it is definitely fun!

Steffie

Steffie,
Going out public is still my greatest dream, yes I have been out at a support meeting but to just dress and go out. I am so happy for you but my wife saids NO in no uncertion terms. Carol Ann

Hi Carol,

I'm sorry to hear that your wife won't let you go out.

When I first started going out 7 months ago, it was to a support meeting and I was on cloud 9. I guess the last few months, I have "spread my wings" to a certain agree. Now it is not enough to just go to meetings. I want to be a part of general society as Steffie. Going to stores, malls, movies and clubs consitute that. I guess it's my "coming out party" or something like that.

Did you ask your wife if she will a least let you go out far away from your home? I never dress as Steffie in my neighborhood and never leave my house as Steffie. Maybe if you and your wife go on a vacation to a place fa away, she will let you be Carol? Hopefully in time she will realize this. I know it took a while for my wife to realize I need to be Steffie but now she realizes this and tell me she will not stand in my way if I want to go out. I still try and spend quality time with her as male too (i.e., movies, dinners, etc.) as well as make her breakfast in bed and dinner sometimes. I find this helps.

Good luck and keep us posted!

Steffie

Ive gone out shopping en femme, but there are no clubs here per se to do so.