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Hi , Iwas just wondering if any one else get that I just love to crossdress
feeling. I don't go out completly en-fem , but when I go out in my tight fem jeans & in my I don't care what others think ,I like to were my heels, boots this time of year. It feels so natural. I find I smile more, feel more relaxed, and of course every womens store I browse ,even if just looking I could do it for hours( not that I can for that long but would love to do a whole day , & would love it if my wife would come too ,but funny thing is she hates to shop) . The only part I feel bad about is my wife doesn't know I wear my heels out in public occassionally , but she knows I frequently check out the womens dept & try on clothes.I kinda thought it funny one time , she asked what if you come out of a change room & someone you know is there, I just gave a simple answer & said I would say Hi. Any how just some random thoughts I thought I would share.

Yeah, I've been out without being fully enfemme a few times. Once in my high heeled boots while with my wife we went into the Cracker Barrel Resaurant to look at the knick knacks for sale.

Stephenie, feeling good about your CDing, what and how you do it, puts you, IMHO, way ahead of many other CDers trying to figure out who they are and not accepting who they are.

As for the heels and your wife? If I have this right she already knows you wear some femme clothes in public, and she knows you try on femme clothes in the stores. Why wouldn't you tell her about the heels?? I sounds like you already have some communication with your wife going about your CDing. Keep the open communication going. Then there are no surprises.


KimberlyS-CD
joe in a skirt

What Kimberly said!!!!

Keep the lines of communication open!!! It sounds like she is somewhat accepting now, but like most SO's they sometimes have a problem getting their minds around us and who we are!

Keep us posted on how it is going for you.

Virginia

Stephenie G wrote:...I don't go out completly en-fem , but when I go out in my tight fem jeans & in my I don't care what others think ,I like to were my heels...It feels so natural. I find I smile more, feel more relaxed, and of course every womens store I browse...

Basically the same here...wear medium sized earrings and
red fingernails 24/7, and when we go out I wear a fem sweater and
change into heels at restaurants, movies, theaters, etc.