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My wife Alex and I had fun last night,went out and had a ball with a couple of my friend that are crossdressers too.I am very glad to have her in my life.I met her 5 years ago thorugh a very good friend of mine,Deana.She was very easy to come out to and I remember how.It was on our 3rd date when we started dating and I saw a look on her and she asked me.I held her hand and told her I am a crossdresser.She said "that's cool" and became very supportive knowing this is my lifestyle.My wife has helped me out with some tips,one time had a run in my pantyhose and told me to use clear nail polish which helped.She also helps me transform into my enfemme side,I do once in a while let her pick out my wardrobe.She says my en femme is a very good best friend she can talk to.

yes, it is nice when your wife is understanding and supportive. you are fortunate to have someone that is accepts you for who you are. take good care of her, she is a rare breed. my wife is also supportive so i can imagine how good you must feel to have her.

lynn

Sounds like a keeper, Dawn.

I take care of her very well.Alex is very caring also and knows I do treat her right.We plan on going out on one weekend just us,dressed as my en femme side and plan on doing something together later on.

good for you,

just remember to always balance your wife's needs and dawn's needs. something we can often forget to do when we find someone that loves our femme side. it cannot always be about dawn, dawn's need to dress up and having a good time. sometimes it needs to be all about her, even if that means putting dawn away for a while.

i try to give my own wife the things she wants and needs as much as i can. there are times when something is bothering her or i'll just sense the time just isn't right for lynn. my wife first met my male side and there are times when she needs to see he is still there!

lynn

I also go out with my wife en femme. There are times when she qwants to go out with the male side, must comply at times

Dawn,

Like Donna said, she's a keeper --- I got one too!!!!

Please invite her to also join the forum. Accepting SO's can add so much to the forum, we would be glad to have her participate!

Virginia

Congrats to you!!

I came out in May 08 and my wife took it hard the first day. She thought I had intentions of leaving her. I strongly said no I did not want to change our status and then she relaxed. She knows I am for her and she is now completely ok with it. She even helps me shop, I have a section of my closet dedicated to fem and she helped me pick out a new wig.

For me what helped was the years of devotion to her and now she letting me be me. I gave her this site to log into but she has needed no support or feels no ill.

Congrads Dawn.........My wife has known about my CDing for sometime but only a few months ago, she saw me fully dressed. Since then she too has accepted my CDing. She has help me build a wardrove, shoes, and heels. She even has let me go out with her fully dressed as a woman.

I fully believe it has brought the two of us closer and I make sure to do things and show her how much I love her. Make sure you show her the same.

My wife accepts me but on occasion pry's and thinks I may want to turn gay. I keep reassuring her that I am not nor have never been interested in men, but she still fears it.

she does not, nor will not go out with me enfemme. I only do so when she is not around, though I do not hide that from her. She also thought I went out with the short skirts I own, to attract men. I happened to have gone out a few days earlier, took some pictures. I had a very conservative skirt, below the knees, and a top that hid everything. I looked like a normal woman going to the store. I had brought a tripod and took a few photos so i printed a few and showed her .. I think that made her feel a little better.

I am so happy for some of you that have SO's that will go out with you. But I still have a keeper. She is a great wife and I love her.