Believe It Or Not!?!?

Julie Larreau · Post by **Julie Larreau** » Tue Oct 19, 2010 5:47 am

I was gunna start on how difficult this is but, of course, most of you have already been here. I'm very, very happy being a man...however, for as long as I can remember, I like 'girly' things. From big, bouncy curls to high heels! I've been trying to figure out why for many, many many years. It is what it is. I'm a crossdresser. I know you all won't judge me. While I'm not completely ready to come out, I feel this is the first step. I will forward pictures that I have taken over the years. Please be objective. I love hair, curls, bangs. Thank you for your consideration. We are all in this together!

With long hair and nails........

Julie

Carol Ann · Post by **Carol Ann** » Tue Oct 19, 2010 6:51 am

Hello Julie,
No hon we will not ask as none of us has the anwser, biggest question going.

Like you I am a happy crossdresser but since the age of 14 I have loved women's cloths and prefer to wear them over male cloths. Enjoy yourself and have a little fun in your life.

Absaroka · Post by **Absaroka** » Wed Oct 20, 2010 9:33 am

Actually I love to ask questions, perhaps because as Carol Ann said, I don't have the answer. But I try not to ask anything unless I'm prepared for any answer, including the refusal to answer.

Welcome to the forum.

Zari

Bernice · Post by **Bernice** » Wed Oct 27, 2010 12:47 am

You are fortunate that you are very happy being a man. Some of us are not so happy about it.

No judgmental-ism allowed here. Not that we'd want to.

It's your life. If you can be happy, without harming others, what's not to accept?

Hugs,

Bernice

Gillian · Post by **Gillian** » Wed Oct 27, 2010 2:22 pm

I'm very, very happy being a man...however, for as long as I can remember, I like 'girly' things.
You joined the club, I to am happy being a man, but realise that there is a feminine side to me that most men do not understand. I often enjoy the company of women more than men because of the conversations. You love hair, curls and bangs, I love lingerie, girly enough for you? Carol Ann said, Enjoy yourself and have a little fun in your life. well that about sums it up. I ask alot of questions and have recieved more interesting answers than I could ever have dreamed of. Enjoy the journey, and I hope that you get some interesting answers to your questions.

Davita · Post by **Davita** » Wed Oct 27, 2010 7:12 pm

So if you're asking me if you pass, I'll be honest and will try to be sensitive. I am not one of those girls that tells every girl she's fabulous then lets her go out in public if she couldn't pass.

Just remember when I comment, consider the source and treat my opinions for what they are worth.

I ain't no perfect beauty so ....

Andrea Elise · Post by **Andrea Elise** » Fri Dec 17, 2010 4:29 pm

Hi Julie,

The photos of you are very nice! You look lovely! And, the pictures look like they were done professionally. Your makeup is done very well.

That I should look so nice!

Yes, this blessing is difficult and we (I) constantly question and re-evaluate ourselves. Mostly, I, too, ask why.

The only answer I have found? It just is. Then it comes down to how I deal with it, how we all deal with it. It is colored by strength of character, personality of the individual.

Personally, I, like so many here, have a roller coaster of a life. Stratospheric ups and deep downs, dark thoughts mixed with total joy. I fear the times of bliss and contentment as they are always followed by deep depression.

I have come to accept, on some level, who I am. Yet, I seem to still struggle with self worth and image. Judging myself by societies standards, which I know are are archaic and repressive. And mostly wrong.

If ever I seem "together" and at ease, it is only my attempt at a projected image.

Someday, maybe, I will post some pictures of myself. If I can ever figure out makeup.

Andrea