As a woman, I can touch people!

How are you dealing with or handling this aspect of your life?

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Anita
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Post by Anita »

Hello Beauty--
Massage partner? Just a person who wants to only trade massages with you, without getting into sexual territories. The woman I was working with had gotten her own massage table, which she could carry around with her.

A lot of emotion seems to get locked into the muscles in the body, so we had to deal with the feelings that came up when we touched certain areas. It takes a lot of trust to allow someone else to massage the stomach area, the chest, and parts of the back. Our faces are very vulnerable, too.

I found that I had a hard time massaging her hands. It was like electricity going back and forth, and it got into sexual feeling in a hurry. I had to back off from that, and move on to something else.
Anita
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Post by Beauty »

Hi Anita! :)

Thank you for the explanation.

I appreciate pushing the envelope with someone who isn't your partner/SO. Trust is everything.

I'm sorry you can't keep up your massage partner, but I hope you find a new partner just as kizmet'ish (you know what I mean :P) as your last one! :wink:

Thanks again! :)

Beauty
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