Fantasy of getting "caught"

[JennyLynn]

I have to say that when I have safe time to dress it's so relaxing and gives me tme to just be me. But I have noticed one thing...I get more excited when I push the envelope of getting caught dressing. I find myself a little more brazen by going out onto my back porch in the early morning hours just as the light is coming up in the hopes that maybe my nextdoor single lady neighbor might see me, or dressing right up to the point when my wife comes home and then scrambling to get undressed before she sees me. No, she doesn't know, but I know she know I have a femme side... maybe all the crying over hallmark movie or my constant comments on womens fashion and what dresses an outfits look nice. She's a practical dresser, while I like a bit more frill. I just find it exciting...kind of like pleasuring yourself when you might get caught. Does anyone else "push the envelope" and find it exciting too? I just wonder what would happen if I got "busted!!" Of course my fantasies about what might happen... "oh my..I never knew, but I'm glad I do now..I kind of like it...it's okay.. let's talk about it and I find it a bit " sexy". I know, that's a total longshot, but imagine if that would be the reaction from your spouse of SO. Flirting with disaster, I know.
As Larry King would say..."Your thoughts?"

Jenny

[Martina Hall]

Taking that chance is exciting, keep in mind that getting busted is a matter of when and where, not "if". Sooner or later, sister, you WILL be in the wrong place in the wrong dress. That being said, post some more photos, you look marvelous!

[JennyLynn]

Thanks Martina. Been close and time will tell if when. If so, it will be quite interesting!

[DonnaT]

Fantasy

Yes, fantasies can be quite toxic, what with the adrenalin and endorphins messing with one's mind.

Hopefully you'll be able to hold on to those fantasies, and not get caught, because reality may be a bummer.

[JennyLynn]

Thank you for all your replies Donna. I feel honored to have a "moderator" take a positive interest in my posts. Your advice is always appreciated and is always dead on. You are so right when you say that getting caught could be a nightmare. It probably would be, but it's always nice to have a fantasy that it would turn out the other way. I dressed this morning not knowing if my wife was out for a run or had gone into work, as her schedule changes all the time. It's so much more exciting to push the envelope, but I suppose I ought to use a bit more caution. It's funny, but I always like to dress more in the early morning hours. It's still dark and I can take doggie outside with my long hair blowing in the wind and nobody can see me...at least I don't think they can! It wouldn't matter much though, as the neighbors that could see me we don't associate with and they don't even know us. It's the ones in the front I have to worry about. Nosey friends!!

Feel free to keep in touch! Is it okay to "friend" moderators?
Jenny

[Gillian]

Donna T quote; "Yes, fantasies can be quite toxic, what with the adrenalin and endorphins messing with one's mind."

The combination of those two can be very powerful. Many of us have enjoyed that cocktail mix which is like climbing onto the razors edge, then we get nicked a couple of times. It is usually after a couple of nicks that we smarten up and realize that a cut from this edge can do much damage. That still doesn't stop us from going it again on the rare occasion.

DonnaT quote; "Hopefully you'll be able to hold on to those fantasies, and not get caught, because reality may be a bummer."

It is always better to tell someone about your CD habits in your timing when you can be prepared, rather than as a result of being caught.

[Miss Conny]

Hi, I know exactly how you feel. Every day, I'm dressed up in ladies underwear and breasts under my male clothes. I fear my that neighbours will see me, but do go out for shopping, hoping some will notice but say nothing. I also go out to the mailbox also wearing high heels. I was caught once wearing only underwear, no breast/high heels. I was at the doctor for a blood test when suddenly the nurse asked me to take of my shirt and lay down. I think I managed to cover my female camisole but then she pulled up my pants and discovered the nylon stockings. She never said anything, she may have seen cross-dressing before.
I know i'm playing with fire but I get a kick.
Best wishes and love.
Miss Conny

[MichelleZ]

Jenny - Might want to get a pedi, toes painted, nylons on and go shoe shopping...it's a rush especially when you get "caught" in your nyloned feet, sans shoes
!

[Zephyr Lily]

I have been caught, twice, once with a neighbour and once with my mom.

It is not as gratifying as you may think, in fact it is quite the opposite, I was so embarrassed and ashamed I never left the house for days.

That was awhile ago, now my mom supports me and circumstances allow me to dress full time 24/7, 365...





zephyr

[Paulette]

Yes, the shame and embarrassment of being caught can be overwhelming, or worse. When I was caught the result was a summer in a locked ward with weekly electroshock treatments. I had to "game" the system by volunteering for treatment (and smiling), to be released back to my parents.

I was 13 then. I'm 73 now and the risk no longer appeals to me. But yes, I do remember when that risk was part of the fun, until it wasn't. And several years later it became fun again.

It's different now that I have a partner who doesn't even blink when I show up in panties or a nightgown, but just smiles and sometimes joins in the fun. To risk getting caught I'd have to leave the house and drive downtown.

Like so much else in cross dressing, I don't know what this is about, but i think not everyone here experiences it. And as always, it's a relief to know that one is not alone.

(I believe most larger police departments are quite used to dealing with the various degrees of sexual exhibitionism, and officers get at least some training in handling it.)

[Eileen (SO)]

JennyLynn,

Do you wish to be seen as a woman, or caught as a CD? If you mainly dress at home, your feminine side is unfulfilled as a person, you don't exist until someone sees you. Going out with other girls for drinks or dinner may help curtail the urge for neighbors to see you as female. Protect your wife's feelings, and your reputation in the neighborhood. Getting 'caught' by a neighbor is a very bad way for your wife to find out about JennyLynn.

Explore ways to be public as a female. If you think you can't possibly pass, choose less obvious places. Read a book near a bike trail, take a drive in the car.

Sure, there is a thrill of being discovered and finally admit to who you truly are and everything is hunky dory. There is reason fantasies are called that and not wishes or dreams. Fantasies never come true.

Eileen

[Noeleena]

Hi,
A fantasy. And being caught, .Plus neighbors not knowing or even talking to them..

Three details i find or i should really say i find hard to understand ,

Being caught because your in womens clothes so its not really about clothes is it its trying to fool others into beliveing your a woman hmmm okay,

Fantasy , well i'd hate that, lets see if i get this right, living some where not connected to whats real.

And not knowing those who live around you, let alone any interaction think that would be very hard to do here where we live, i know every one around here, plus those i see every day and meet like i have at the shop iv pretty much compleatly redone people who come in and from 200 miles away down here for our Oamaru Heritage celibrations so i meet many people ,

Our neighbours i talk with them allmost every day,

And all this over a fantasy of being caught and not being friendly with those around you for other reasons maybe,

I really could not live like that.

Now when i dress up. every one around me knows oh must be our Edwardian day for our group last saturday we had 22 for our xmas dinner was lovely .

This week end ill be with our Renaissance group around 35 of us, doing Archery and again dressed in the time's , so yes i get dressed up not your normal day wear , = garb,

Now even when we meet others or see others who are not from our groups they come and talk with us and have our photos taken and they go around the world, oh dear thats telling and we are inthe news more photos, ill be dressed in my wench outfit = kitchen dutys , hey i enjoy it.

So why the difference between us, okay im a female your not yet we are both dressing youll be seen as a woman im not my facial features tell that, yet im accepted you are not .

So what if you if you could come with me and spend a week or two getting to know our people doing what we do and try this ,

At first i was very embarrist because of how i look and some thought i was takeing on the personer

of a woman in the 1400 - and allso the 1900= they thought i was a male reinacting a woman of both those times and i was asked are you a male or woman i said im female born different,

The Lady who saw me thought i was male after a time she said to me your not male are you, because she thought the guts it would take to do what im doing, was fantastic then she realised i was female,

Okay i have a advantage or two yet really when you think about this i have disadvantages as well.

you can dress look more like a woman than i and no dought pass blend in yet theres something missing your not open to others were i am .

I know another guy who dress's in some lovely clothes not unlike our Edwardian wear and he looks lovely and those who natter with him know he's a guy no ? and he is not trying to be a woman in the sence you may be doing, he's accepted he dress's and has a ball.

You see what im saying , im a female look like a male ( face .) am well accepted pretty much were ever i go and my friend is a male and is accepted as well dressed .

Hey i get very embarrised make no mistake there, and my Friend who is well up on Edwardian wear, and others have noted why i dont dress quite the same as our women i said because im embarrised, i said i dress very plain so i dont look stupid .

I know shed like to get some more clothes for me for evening wear,,, i thought oh no ........i know the clothes are lovely sometimes i just wont to hide away and not be seen, yes even at 66 a female yes i know i doubt myself,

I dont know how much your seen or by who. or where you go. so look at this , this way, my friend is doing something he enjoys im doing because im a woman,

gota go commitee meeting . = Change of plan,

...noeleena...