Achieving our goals...

[Anne Bonny]

There are limits to what can be achieved for us. Even the best of us such as the beautiful Transsexual on youtube, Charlie Martin...a girl for all seasons with her extreme beauty, lovely flawless voice with a beautiful accent does not have all the correct curves to achieve the beautiful and natural figure of a woman...Her hips and torso while thin are also without curves just the same straight narrow hips...in fact she has a slight belly too.

This helps me to understand about myself too that while I am 59, and know my limits, gosh I have not even had laser hair removal on my face and electrolysis, several years of Estrogen and SRS or even pierced ears... No. We older ladies...will never come close to the beauty of the 30 something Charlie Martin...ah the regret of a lifetime lost. But you know, most women know that they also have limits. Women know they do not have the flawless beauty of many of the rich an famous singers, actresses, and other famous women but famous women put on weight, they age we all have our limits but that should not stop any of us from striving to achieve what we are capable of whatever they are be we gender fluid, cross dressers, full timers or even transsexuals seeking to become who we were meant to be.

I believe I have been pushing myself that I over did it and nearly made myself sick in my pursuit of making progress so that I can achieve my personal best and find my dream of living and being freely who I am so that I can finally live openly have a loving partner and other friends and go on to enjoy the rest of my wonderful life.

It is fun to experiment and to find small ways to improve on my make up skills...to achieve smooth skin, and enjoy the lovely gratification of wearing things which are so amazingly beautiful and comfortable and loving it realizing that I am becoming so used to it all that I feel completely relaxed and comfortable in clothes that are mine and that I am free to wear every day as we wear anything else. There is a joy in it when like this morning I was up out of bed wearing the lovely chemise and panties I had on...in the early morning as I went into my morning routine brushing teeth etc...And I realized yes, these are my clothes, they are pretty and comfortable and I can wear them from now on as a feminine person and for the rest of my life. Yeah...that is a thrilling and wonderful thought, I really have achieved a part of a dream which is ongoing. My hair is achieving a better length allowing me to style it. I have a great selection of jewelry and other things. And I am able to just live and be who I am comfortably.

A new aid is coming so I am in male outer clothing but I am alright with it. There is no need to out our ourselves unnecessarily to everyone with something that is so personal but in time I am able if I wish to. I am making progress and as I am finding my way I am learning about myself and my feminine side is growing too.

So realistically yes we all have limits but that should not stop us from achieving what we are capable of attaining for ourselves to achieve our personal best and from being able to achieve our dreams. Not everyone can break world records, or be as pretty as the woman of our dreams but we can reach our full potential as the kind of women that we are but also with other things in our life.

I think everyone should read the book The Secret by Rhonda Byrne not that that book is the end all and be all of it's kind. But it talks about the power of our mind to change everything in our life inside and out. It is true that we can attract everything we desire into our lives and achieve what we wish for. It coaches us on how to be positive, and how being so can have an enormous impact on our lives. It is a basic truth that is universally acknowledged in many other ways. If you really want something for yourself you can achieve it. We are told we can be whoever we want to be by our parents. It fits in with that. So I recommend it for reading.

Part of a post to a friend...

We have life outside of FB!!!! Mine is not that great but I am able to escape into a world of my own making inside my own mind...l love to think and to make progress and I love being able to be positive and joyful even with the mundane...XXX's decline and need for care yes it is a huge burden...The bills have to be addressed over the next few days - UGH! Frustrations here and there...But I can be and I am happy about some things as you can see, and I know I have a future that will be better unless I die before I am out from under XXX's care ...it is important to realize that there are no guarantees in life so we had best get on with it and find some enjoyment as we proceed. Later gal....Anne

[Victoria K.]

Try not to forfeit your dreams because of age. There is so much you can do at any age if you do not give up and believe.If you do not try you will never know.I have had a few dreams come true lately because i do not give up.A new dream that has a reality of coming true this new year is an hour glass figure.Keep living and doing! and your dreams may come true.

[Anne Bonny]

I'm not giving up. I am being truthful, objective. There are limits...but we can achieve our best. Right...we can't let limitations discourage us...or age...be your best and never let negatives stop you from being who you are.