CDing and Being Single

Lorna · Post by **Lorna** » Sun May 09, 2004 11:06 am

Shannon wrote:Wow... it always seems that the grass is greener on the other side of the fence.... Singles wish they had somebody, married wish they had freedom.....

As you know I am married, and VERY happy I am... I got the best, SEXIEST woman in the world.... I wouldn't trade it for the moon and the stars....

I myself have no social skills, so if I was single, I would be very unhappy... But it still strikes me as strange how there is this never ending feeling of being in the "wrong" situation....

To ALL I wish you luck in finding contentment with your current situation....

It does make sense. I guess I get to feeling that way from time to time because all of my friends (male or female) are either married, engaged or in commited relationships. So come the weekends my friends don't go out as Saturday night they are all with their SOs.

As the only single person in my entire group of friends it can be tough. But yes - the upside is if there's a party I know that I can just go and flirt with whomever I choose - guilt free!

Then there was the time when I was with my last g/f ... and everyone else was single. At the time it seemed like parties would creep up here & there... and I'd feel bad about going w/o her, or feel just as bad when she came out with me & I noticed that cute blonde GG at 3 o clock, winking at me... and Id say to myself, "Dang! Where was she when I was single?"

I never have and never would cheat on a girlfriend. But I like to go out! Lorna is a party girl! Whereas my ex g/f was more of a homebody...

Lacey Hadley · Post by **Lacey Hadley** » Tue May 11, 2004 2:02 am

Hi Lorna,

As you are noticing, singles do visit here. I empathize with much of what you and the other single cders say. I am currently single, divorced and have been in a recent relationship with a GG who was very into cders so she liked much of me. But she had issues with her children from a previous marriage and we drew apart. I still have lots of love for her and would consider kick starting over again if the situation were to come back up.

Being single for me is a double edge sword. On the plus side I can dress rather freely and come and go as I please. I control what I watch, do and listen to. But like others I do wish for an excepting and openminded female who can love the guy in me. I am rather normal with typical like like character traits, but softened by Lacey and what she brings to me. I also desire this GG to know, love and experience Lacey. Lacey is great and she brings out traits in me that are very pleasent and special.

I can understand how GG's may be confused of such but since my divorce I have always said, I will only desire any relations with GG's who know about Lacey. I'm not going to be ashamed or hide her in such. I truly hope I can find such a relationship and make a great life for the both of us. Until then I will try to be happy and live my life as best I know how. It's hard being a cder at times and easy to get down on yourself etc. But life is hard for most all people, just different for each of us.

take care

Beauty · Post by **Beauty** » Tue May 11, 2004 6:07 am

Hi Lacey,

Great post! Good for you!!!!

With a spirit like that, you'll find someone. Love is more than likely waiting to make sure she's right for you.

I think your post will aid lots of people who are looking for the words you so eloquently spoke for them.

Beauty