Honest and Objective who I am

[Anne Bonny]

I do believe that this is honest and objective and that this does relay who I really am or who I have been my entire life. Yeah I can project and be male, have been but deep down it is an honest reflection of who I really am inside. I suppose I have never really allowed myself to or maybe I have never really been able to give this honest perspective from within, It has taken a lot of life experience and thought and work for me to be able to really relay this as it is. Yeah, I am as women are in this way....I think this is how and it really lays it out there.

It is OK for a man to get up and dress in women's clothes, women do. Men can style their selves as women do and many look as nice. If a man has the temperament and this is right for him then why not? Is it wrong if a man is as women are why can't he be as he is? Lots of women prefer being manly in their manner of dress and are more straight forward and assertive in their temperament why not style their selves as they prefer too!? Women tend to get away with it but men are judged harshly by nearly everybody who believe men have to be dominant and their dressing as women threatens the dominant status of all men in society. That is why men who are as I am are driven into hiding from public scrutiny. I have always been a more "Beta" male, hanging back, more reticent in every way...less ambitious, emotional and moody and unwilling to pursue women...I can really only remember having some passing close feelings or acquaintance with a mere 8 women 4 before graduating high school of which one of those was a childhood playmate who was a year or two older than myself, 4 in college only two were quite serious and one of those turned out to be my wife. I really am more suited for something else. I've worn women's clothing here and there when I could or felt comfortable with it my entire life.. and yet outwardly I am not flamboyant, effeminate, or interested in men, I am heterosexual. I believe my temperament is more suited for being a co equal partner, and even yielding to her in every way and supporting her at times. Many men are suited for this and if society were honest it would not present any problem for anyone. Do little girls want to grow up to be men? No, they grow up to be who they are...and we should all be allowed to do that.

Are women weak, or weaker than men...does this mean men as I am are weaker and more emotional? Not really because women are strong in a different way, and so are men who are as I am. I am emotional and moody and always have been, probably more than most men are. Hormonal fluctuations are not the only reason women tend to be emotional or moody.

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