Coping 0'yeah!

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Coping? well now Deborah has a challenge, like she doesn't have them everyday?! My wife is going out of town tomorrow (Tuesday) but will be back Wednesday - I have soooo many things I want to do I can't decide, but I do want to go out to a movie too. Anyway I will get to be a wild woman for a while. ----------------the saga continues! My son has been discharged from the Army on a medical (hurt back). He will be home this Thursday or Friday, depending on how long it takes him to drive here from El Paso (Ft. Bliss). He and his wife (he is 20 and she's 18) I know, I know - believe me I tried to stop this fiasco, but to no avail - they will be moving into our basement - they fight all the time, I am surprised they have lasted these past 11 months! Anyway until he can get a job and they get an apartment - well Deborah will be in dire straights for a while! Yes I have considered telling them, but I just am not ready yet - I want to see how they get along with each other first! I am still going to the SCC in Atlanta, however!
Are we having fun yet???
I apologize but I will have to live vicariously through my sisters here for a few months (JULIE DO YOU HEAR ME???) and Robin and Lorna and the rest of my sisters who post there "going out" stories.
Love you girls,
Deborah
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Post by Beauty »

Hi Deb',

Oh wow. PLEASE the moment the your wife is gone don the femme wardrobe like you've never donned it before!!! :) I think you may be right about Deb going away for a while with your son coming home for a while.

I also live through others who go out. I love to read their stories. Especially because they are smart about where they are going and they stay SAFE. The most important part about going out. (Sorry about the public service announcement!:))

Please let us know how your day or day and a half of dressing goes. I look forward to seeing your post in the When was the last time you dressed thread. :)

You're a great father Deb and a great member of our forum. :)
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Beauty,
What a sweetheart you are!!!
Love,
Deborah
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Post by Loretta Ann »

Hey Sis.

That is going to be hard on you, I guess it will be similar to a purge. enjoy your day tomorrow hon. I hope it dose not last to long for you.
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Beauty wrote:Hi Deb',

Oh wow. PLEASE the moment the your wife is gone don the femme wardrobe like you've never donned it before!!! :)
heehee, I 100% agree :) femme femme femmeee :)

Sophie xx
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Hi Deborah,

As long as your wife is away for the next day or two before your son arrives, by all means, get out and treat Deborah to a fun day or night!!

As for your son & his wife - It can be chaotic when you have so many adults living under one roof. Privacy is the number one issue. But I'm willing to bet that your son & his wife will want their private time now & then, as I'm sure you seek yours. Hopefully that will work out and won't infringe too much on your Deborah time - but worse comes to worst they will hopefully find a place soon. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you! [-o<

*hugs*

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Post by Rebecca »

Hi WILD WOMAN,

Enjoy it whenever you can, who knows, maybe things will change quicker than you anticipate ? When you expect something to go one way, life often changes it's plans for you.
The bills that come through the letterbox are proof of that :-k

I hope it all goes smooth for you, I really do :)

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Hey_Deborah 8)

How goes the saga ? Did you "get lucky" :lol:

I'm verry Kurious about the "Kompany" you wil have in your basement ... of kourse there was a time I krashed at my Dad's place ... he as you probably know by now was a CD ... but at *that* time he was also married to a straight gal (mean too) with 2 kidz (spoiled) so he didn't get many ops to "get_it_on" ...

Me ... I'm a lucky gal ... there was a time I thought "woe is me" for living on my own with no "squeeze" until I realized that was *Marda's* *choice* to make ... *Not* * "Mr.Spaceman's"* ... Marda ain't kool with other chix in the koop ... jealous sort she is [-( [-(

Of kourse now Marda is "Out" with herself (thanx BIG to the Forum here) it could be kool 8) to have an SO here as long as she and I have the proper "understanding " :lol: 8)

Anywaze, I'll be lookin' 4 your update when you get a min :shock: :lol:

Love / Marda
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Well, I appreciate all your interest in my "Deborah Does ?" but I guess Robert Burns put it best and I will have to paraphrase his poem, "The best laid plans of mice and men "ganged aft aglay" ( often go astray).
Monday night my computer died an horrible, aganozing death by virus and spywear! So with my wife gone I still spent the entire day of Tuesday reconfiguring the (big bucks computer) I am now using and on into the night. HOWEVER! Wednesday morning I got up "dressed" and proceeded to "Deborah's Closet" and began the heroic task of putting together the outfits we will wear at SCC in Atlanta. I had great fun, I must have tried on every skirt and blouse combination I have, varied my make-up to match the different colors and trying to decide what would look best in a seminar vs. eating lunch or dinner or shopping and I came to really appreciate what GG's must go through when planning a five day journey.
So right now I have nine outfits for the five days, three blondes and one very sexy brunette, and six pairs of shoes that will be travelling to Atlanta.
And underware selection - well that's a story in itself and what color hose with which outfit and knee highs with slacks and "sheer to the waist" with a mini. And belts and jewelery and nail polish - color to match blonde or brunette and lipstick and eyeshadow and rogue and and and on and on! It was sheer pleasure, so I guess all in all I can't complain. I did not get to go out, but I'd say it was a successful venture. Now Deborah's closet is locked and when my son and his bride move back into our basement Friday Deborah will just have to be content to mentally preside over the happening!
Love you all!!!!!!
Deborah
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Post by Loretta Ann »

Sounds like you did have fun Sis. Thanks for the up date.

After I too was forced off the net with a similar situation, I now have two computers on line, one which I use for this kind of activity only, right now I have a virus on the other one, But it has not caused any problems, as of yet. I will reinstall my operating system on it at my leisure in the near future.
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