marriage going down the drain

How are you dealing with or handling this aspect of your life?

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DonnaT
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Kay(SO) wrote:I realize that we aren't supposed to post here too but I just had to respond to what Anita wrote:
Did I miss something? I see no problem with SOs posting here. Post away Kay :)
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Ms Donna,

I thought this was a place just for ya'll. I admit that I read as much as I can so that I can keep learning and growing. Thanks for the kindness and support as always! :)
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Kay, Virginia will support you if you think you would get in trouble for posting here!!! [-X [-X [-X .
It is so important to get the ramifications of our struggles right from the source. SO's/GG's have trouble understanding us and I guess we have trouble in understanding why you see us as such a threat to the relationship. I guess this struggle will continue as from all I have read there just does not seem to be a common ground we can both stand on. Even when we are able to convince you that we are not gay or that we have no intention of SRS it is still a struggle for you as GG's to accept that we like the smells, the feelings, clothing, jewelery, make-up, etc. You know that we do not do it to threaten you or embarrass you it is just something that we feel we have to do and we enjoy it. As you know my spouse has requested to never see Virginia and I have respected her request, yet she just can not deal with the perception of her husband being a cross dresser. I am posting under "Do You Know How I Feel" on a topic that I hope you will read and respond to as well.
As I have said before -THANK YOU, THANK YOU THANK YOU for being there for us and I hope/pray that there is an answer for us, but right now I just don't see it!!!
Love ya,
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Kay(SO) wrote:Ms Donna,

I thought this was a place just for ya'll. I admit that I read as much as I can so that I can keep learning and growing. Thanks for the kindness and support as always! :)
Hi Kay,

None of the CD areas are off limits to the SOs. :) There's a discussion right now if there should be a place, but right now you all have carte blanche to post were ever. :) Thank God! :)

Beauty
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