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My urge is back and my future

Post by Merinda »

Hi girls,

I have now moved on from post holiday discontent and I'm really looking forward to dressing again .
I was persuing another hobby yesterday and all I could think of was dressing , perhaps I should dress when engaging in my hobbies and get the best of both worlds.

I was doing some thinking recently about my daughters future as photographer of Merinda , she will turn 15 in December and the day will come when she will probably have better things to do with her time.
This will be a problem for me when that happens so I've decided to make a final date in the future so that I can finish photosessions on a high rather than have then stopped at an inconvevient time .

I will end my Daughters involvement in May 2007 , she will be 16 at that time .
May 2007 looks far away but it will be here before we know it so I will discuss my plans to my wife and daughter , this date will coincide with my plans to finish my schoolgirl photo's and move on to become a more mature girl.

My future should then be a mixture of social outings with my TG friends and a bit of the good old fasioned domestic dressing :)
Merinda
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Post by Beauty »

Hi Merinda,

I'm glad you are looking forward to dressing again. :)

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Post by Jan W »

Hi Merinda,

All sounds good.

Keep in touch.

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Post by Loretta Ann »

Merinda is back folks :)
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Post by Virginia »

Merinda, honey, you should know by now - it never goes away!!!!
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!!!yes!!! !!!yes!!!
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Virginia wrote:Merinda, honey, you should know by now - it never goes away!!!!
Love,
Virginia
HI Virginia ,

I never doubted that the urge would return , it was a question of " when"?

The shopping urge never went away , I now have heaps of new gear ready to wear.
Merinda
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Post by Absaroka »

Dressing while pursueing other hobbies sounds reasonable to me.

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Post by Elizabeth »

Merida,

I am so happy to hear a tone in your post of joy. You seem very upbeat in all the things you say. And you are correct, 2007 will be here before you know it.

As I have read your posts over the last year and a half it is hard for me not to notice that your crossdressing is inextricably tied to taking photos of yourself while dressed. This of course has involved your daughter as the photographer, which is all good, except it means you have to work around her wants and needs also.

I wonder if perhaps you have concidered taking your crossdressing in a direction that does not involve photographs at all? In this way you might experience all kinds of different looks and feels and the bonus is, it would require no one to participate except you.

In this way you would not have to think in terms of your crossdressing career ending on any one day in any one year. You could just do as you please.

Love always,
Elizabeth
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Post by Merinda »

Elizabeth wrote:
I wonder if perhaps you have concidered taking your crossdressing in a direction that does not involve photographs at all? In this way you might experience all kinds of different looks and feels and the bonus is, it would require no one to participate except you.

In this way you would not have to think in terms of your crossdressing career ending on any one day in any one year. You could just do as you please.

Love always,
Elizabeth
Hi Elizabeth ,

Thats prety much the direction I'm going , the no agenda form of dressing where I can just do what I want by myself
Merinda
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