Changing the gender box

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Changing the gender box

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The above link, if it works properly (and it does seem to), will take you to an article about an attempt to modify employment applications in New York to include more than male/female gender choices on the forms. To me, that seems to indicate the symptoms of the problem. Employers DO care and have preferences about the gender of a prospective emplyee and do take it into account when hiring for a given job. They would gender you by just your name if that's all they had. :? Do you think it will succeed widely, or just be one more attempt?
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Something like that could just as easily work against us as for us with certain companies.
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Why have gender on the forms at all? Gender should not make a difference in someone's ability to do the job.
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gender box is silly, more definitions silly too

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I agree with donna and lorna.
A male-female check-off is silly anyhow, since anyone with eyes can judge for themselves what gender you are. I would sign up according to their expectations if I needed or wanted the job.
Guess I'd rather have the profits of salary that allow me to cd, or whatever, than the pleasure of incriminatiing myself to people who most likely will not understand. It's simply taking the"fifth."
When entrenched, I could then do whatever I decide is best pour petite moi.
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I tend to think that it is not neceeary and would not enable us in anyway. It would simply create additional problems that would take a great deal of effort to suppress.
Issues like invasion of privacy, not being able to control the publishing of the information to other sources. The distibution of personal information and its interpertation by others that could be more intimating and damaging for us. We need to manage our gender issue as a privacy one and not have to worry about others perceptions that could be triggered by having an additional label.
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Post by CJ »

Hi all,

I humbly submit to the powers that be the following proposal for a Gender Box:

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Post by Sonja »

Ha, good one CJ. To me, gender should be a gray area.

I agree with the other girls, who needs a gender selection choice. We are who we are.

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LOL CJ!!!

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I would much rather see the M/F checkbox removed entirely than to see more options added.

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Post by Carolynn »

CJ!!!!!! :lol: :P :lol: ..^..

Looks like this idea should have little support in NY City, or elsewhere, if we are to be any judge. Good points, all! =D>

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Post by Virginia »

Hey CJ, that is great!!!
Can I check them all huh??? can I can I I wannta check 'em all!!!
But I like Eva (and again what a cutie) and the rest what the heck difference does it make? You know I use to tell my boss, " I will get the job done, on time and/or sooner and on or under budget, just leave me the hell alone." Worked for me!
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Post by Merinda »

DonnaT wrote:Why have gender on the forms at all? Gender should not make a difference in someone's ability to do the job.
I agree with donna it shouldn't be on the form at all



alternatively where it asks "SEX"? , just write "yes please"! in the box. :lol:
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Changing the gender box

Post by Leslie Langford »

Salut, CJ!

Omigod! - so many genders, so little time!!!

What's a guy/girl/whatever to do?

I think I'll go out and buy that new pair of Nine West pumps that I have had my eye on before my brain explodes! Or pig out on some poutine, perhaps.

Decisions, decisions! And when did Micheael Jackson become an option? Weren't you planning to restrict this gender breakdown to the denizens of this planet?

Leslie :-k

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Post by Bernice »

Bernice is almost always so very late to the party...

I too, laughed hard enough to hurt myself when reviewing CJ's suggested list.

Yes, I have begun selecting "Prefer not to divulge" for sex/gender on job applications. I do not know what affect this has had on my lack of success finding work.

As I have stated elsewhere on this forum, there is no binary gender. We are all whatevever we are, on a continuum.

Gender in the job application process is discrimination, even when used to satisfy the Feds that some percentage of "claimed females" have been hired.

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