I do believe what you said may be true in a lot of ways. As in our senior years seems I'm more happy being a women and I believe the wife wants to return to our very younger days and get really kinkie ever now and again. I tell her we are kinda old for that sort of stuff and her reply was, "so who's old?".
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I will be starting a new thread on our talk later as a whole lot has happen and things are starting to come out in the open about just what are her feelings and what has been bothering her. Interesting the things people will learn if you talk and just listen to the other person.
Carol Ann