Told the wife last night.

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Johanna May
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A recent up date just got off the phone with my wife and next weekend we have a wedding and she wants to pick what I get to wear underneath it. She said she is thinking of a nice camisole with a matching satin boycut panties. Oh that sound so nice another step in the right direction I hope we can keep this up. I did not bring anything up she brought it up all on her own.
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Yum! (he said, to make it at least a six-character post)
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Hi Johanna.

That sounds like a step in the right direction!

Good for you!
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What seems like the right thing to do could also be the hardest thing you have ever done in your life.
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I am a physically male person that likes to wear feminine clothes at times.
Just trying keep a balance for my self along with keeping my wife and kids in mind.
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Let's see we're to start just got off the phone with my wife after talking for 2 hrs and she is still trying to understand this hole crossdressing thing but is accepting 1 day at a time. But she does want to talk to a counselor or professional whatever you want to call it. I support her 100% I said whatever it takes so we will see we're we gO from here. Stay tune to the rest of the story. Please share comments
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Update, well it has been almost a month since I came out to my wife and I can't believe what a progress she has made. She still not a 100% on board but she is coming along. I went home last weekend because I travel for work so it was my weekend home. So Friday we went shopping together to get some things she needed as we walked the the women's section we looked at things together and at the end of our trip i had my own camisole , with a new pair of panties and a nice satin sleep wear set. Oh I loved it. She said she had fun shopping together as so did I.

Well the other day she was looking to go see a counselor about my crossdressing but she opened up to a family friend. I was a little nerves but this friend is not very judge mental at all. For this friend has a lot of gay and bi sexual friends and she sent my wife a text out of the blue saying that she was thinking of stuff my wife and I could do for fun. And how she could have a lot of fun to her advantage with my crossdressing. So this friend of my wife's sends in the text how we should go for a pedi together and she also thought if my wife was going to accept this that when my wife goes for waxing of her eyebrows and lip area she should take me also and maybe let me experience it. For today a lot of guys do it. So I happy my wife is able to talk to someone who is open minded and is also. Supportive so we will see what happens I'll keep. You all up to date. Please add any comments thanks
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I agree you wife is really doing well - an congratulations! But bear in mind she's still coming from a limited position as far as your CDing goes - and in terms of you actually dressing up she hasn't moved much. But the mood music is good - and her talking to her friend and getting such positive feedback is another decent step forward.
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