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Merinda
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Post by Merinda »

Beauty wrote: We're all just one bad person away from being harmed or killed. What we do in the public can be dangerous still.

I don't mean to rain on your thread or anything Elizabeth, I just want folks to be careful out there.

Are there any safety precautions you take that you can pass along to those who are also thinking about going out? That question isn't just for Elizabeth if others have ideas.

Beauty
(1) stay in a safe enviroment such as a shopping centre , not a bar full of testosterone x alcohol driven cowboys.
Dont go near any pub , hotel or anywhere that congragates young men and alcohol.

(2) go out in daylight hours , preferably working hours during the week

(3) dont go to the same place at the same time on a regular basis

(4) take someone with you if possable.

For total safety , a mechine gun under your skirt , but the rat-at-at-tat sound would make eveyone look up and realize that you're a crossdresser and laugh at you while people dropped dead.
"Hey dad" , the woman shooting at us is a man HA-HA-HA!! :lol: :lol:

Sorry folks I'm in need of a bit of humor today [-X :twisted:
Merinda
Alexandra
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Post by Alexandra »

Merinda Widget wrote: (4) take someone with you if possable.
like Clint Eastwood.

:lol:
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Merinda
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Post by Merinda »

Clint Eastwood would be too busy fighting off autograph seekers .

I have taken my 13 year old daughter on my outings and having a kid with me is my photographer and my protection , it would have to be a real low-life individual to approach a Cd aggressivly while a child is present.

I have been banned from taking my daughter on any future CD public adventures so I dont know if I will be going out anymore. :(
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Post by Beauty »

Hi Merinda,

That's sad. :( What happened?

When you did take her out, where did you go? :)

Beauty
Jassmine(SO)
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Post by Jassmine(SO) »

Howdy Gang,


Elizabeth wrote:
I really get treated better than when I am dressed in boy mode. It is like people are attracted to me. I was not in the grocery store 20 seconds today before someone started up a conversations with me. Yesterday in Ross a woman talked to me for over 20 mins while we looked at nighties. I later saw the same woman at Payless and she came over talked to me again.
Ah, this may be due to the fact that you are radiating a lot of positive energy :) People are naturally drawn to postive vibes :) I would venture to say that you feel more like who you truly are when enfemme. When one is truly comfortable in one's own skin it really shows ##oo##

*hugs & Love* @->->- *^^*
Blessings Eternal, Jassmine

"Love is unconditional acceptance. That quality is also our essential nature, who we really are."
--Peter Shepherd
Merinda
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Post by Merinda »

Beauty wrote:Hi Merinda,

That's sad. :( What happened?

When you did take her out, where did you go? :)

Beauty

Hi Beauty ( another beautiful avatar I see ) ,

The last outing was the last photo upload schoolgirl in the park , although my daughter says that she's fine with it I could sense she was nervous / uneasy .
I decided that perhaps I shouldn't continue to put her in that (out in public) enviroment if she feels uncomfortable.

The next day-
My wife who is not a fan of my xdressing discovered that we went out again , she hit the roof and banned me from taking her out while dressed.

Her banning doesn't bother me because I was considering stopping due to my daughters uneasiness.

I will continue with in-house photosessions , my daughters fine with that.

I have had 3 fantastic outings in my memory and have the photo's to look back on.
Merinda
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