It truly sucks when people do really nasty things that force us into the choice of doing somethign that we really would rather not do, or taking an even bigger hurt. 8-(
However from everything that I have seen of you in the forums I have no doubt in my mind whatsoever that you will come out on top as the better person, and have learned how to be an even better person that before from the trials.
Hi Elizabeth--
I did a long reply last night, and the software glitched and wouldn't let me post it. I copied it to Word, but have not figured out how to paste it in here.
I wanted to say that I don't know how your daughter initially handled it, but on the web, I've seen that teenagers and young adults can flip-flop very severely when it comes to CDing. It's painful to read about.
You may be going through some pain, but you've got your integrity. I don't want to hammer on your wife here, because I don't what she's going through, really. I'd say she's in for hard times, even if no criminal charges come down. She seems to have lost integrity, and no new relationship is going to prop it up.
You have a new and different life in front of you now. I know you'll make the most of it.
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