Hi Sallee-
I appreciate what you say, but I have not taken CDing too far. I am only doing what I have to do to survive. My spouse knows my moods pretty well, and she knows when I need to dress- (which is quite often). Yes, we are all different, but I have realized that I am much more than a CD, which makes my 'need' much stronger than most. I applaud those who can control it. Consider yourselfextremely lucky...
Nicole
Having trouble-any SO advice?
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reply to Nicole from a SO
Dear Nicole, I'm Joe's wife. I'm sorry for what you and your wife are going
through. We've been married for 27 years. Joe is fairly new to this CDing
and just recently surprised me with it. I'm still digesting all this. Now I know I won't leave Joe because of this. We have been through so much together. This is really nothing compared to what we have weathered together. What I live by alot today with anything that happens is don't sweat the small things. Life is too short ! You see Joe sprung this on me while I was trying and I'm still dealing with emptynest. I discovered that was for real. Joe and I have always been openminded. Joe more so than me. I'll just pray for God to help me understand and to handle this in the right way. I just want Joe to always be happy with himself and me. Prayer works . It has always helped us alot in the past. Also and most important in any relationship you both have to compromise some or you're doomed.
I'd hate to see years of love go to waste. Good Luck and we'll pray for both of you. Always remember your kids feelings also. Take Care. "L"
through. We've been married for 27 years. Joe is fairly new to this CDing
and just recently surprised me with it. I'm still digesting all this. Now I know I won't leave Joe because of this. We have been through so much together. This is really nothing compared to what we have weathered together. What I live by alot today with anything that happens is don't sweat the small things. Life is too short ! You see Joe sprung this on me while I was trying and I'm still dealing with emptynest. I discovered that was for real. Joe and I have always been openminded. Joe more so than me. I'll just pray for God to help me understand and to handle this in the right way. I just want Joe to always be happy with himself and me. Prayer works . It has always helped us alot in the past. Also and most important in any relationship you both have to compromise some or you're doomed.
I'd hate to see years of love go to waste. Good Luck and we'll pray for both of you. Always remember your kids feelings also. Take Care. "L"
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