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(1) Allow your wife to inspect and make judgement of a suitable rental property because I was tied down at work and couldn't make it.

(2) move into a house with no closets , wardrobes or safe storage etc.

(3) move into a house with no bathtub for leg shaving.

(4) move nextdoor to a house with a large glazed sunroom that features many windows looking out over the driveway , front and back yards.

(5) Discover that all of above are real and I'm not waking from a dream.


Life wasn't meant to be easy

Merinda wrote:(4) move nextdoor to a house with a large glazed sunroom that features many windows looking out over the driveway , front and back yards.

And the problem is?

DonnaT wrote:

Merinda wrote:(4) move nextdoor to a house with a large glazed sunroom that features many windows looking out over the driveway , front and back yards.

And the problem is?

Sorry Donna , I meant OUR driveway and yards.

If I decided to start going out again , their windows are only a few feet from my carport , making it hard to be secretive.
There is no privacy in the front or back yard , means being trapped indoors.

Merinda wrote:(4) move nextdoor to a house with a large glazed sunroom that features many windows looking out over the driveway , front and back yards.

Easy fix. Make a big ol' pressed ham on the window when someone looks your way. Eventually, they'll quit looking when they see movement in your windows.

I Know what you mean, Merinda. A safe comfortable and convenient house for one person might easily be not safe comfortable or convenient for someone else. Especially if that someone else is a cross dresser.

Hi, Merinda -

I am not familiar with your home life, meaning, if your wife is OK with Merinda and if so how accepting she might be.

So, with that disclaimer . . . is it possible that your wife made the housing decision as a means to prevent you from dressing and/or going out dressed???

All the items that you listed led me to that conclusion, so please accept my apologies if that conclusion is incorrect.

- SL

Hi Silver Lady ,

No , its simple bad luck on my part ,

I haven't gone for a night out since April 2007 and it was my decission to cease outings at that time , however I was recently reconsidering that decission but didn't tell anyone. I might just use the outside area anyway and not give a care what anyone sees or thinks.

My wife will miss out on a bath also , she enjoys them more than I do , she simply overlooked it during inspection.

Sorry, I read it wrong, Merinda. I though you were saying you moved from the house with no bathtub for leg shaving to the one nextdoor with a large glazed sunroom that features many windows looking out over the driveway, front and back yards.

Sorry Donna, I was in a cranky mood when I posted this topic and didn't really explain it too well.

The current rental property where we live is to become a development site for 7 new self contained units to be built , this means we are forced to vacate our current address.
When looking for new accomodation we found a house that looked suitable from first sight , the house was open for inspection on a day that was not possible for me to attend (work commitments) so I told my wife that I would trust her judgement.
I signed a twelve month lease for a house that I have not seen the interior , I was not happy when I finally went inside and saw no place to store clothing , photos and other junk etc .
When discovering there was no bath and no privacy in the yards I became angry , I wont trust anyones judgement other than my own in future.

Does this mean you are ready for a get together Merinda?

Hello my dear friend Jan , its been a long time

Yes I'm happy to get together once I get settled into the new house

Also-
I will be off-line for the next week or so , (disconnection - reconnection)

Good Luck with your move. I hope it goes smoothly.

kim

I'm back ,

The move went OK but I'm still exhausted 2 weeks hereafter , I have now adapted to the new enviroment-

(1) I've dressed twice already , I've been out in the yard dressed.

(2) I've refurbished an old electric razor for leg shaving (no bathtub)

(3) I discovered that a "Mach3" multiblade razor will work dry , the back step is good for shaving.

(4) The trains roaring through the cutting below my back fence send vibrations through the house , I must replace the elastic on my pair of knickers before the vibration rattles them down my legs

Merinda wrote:
(4) move nextdoor to a house with a large glazed sunroom that features many windows looking out over the driveway , front and back yards.

Sorry to unearth this thought to be dead thread , but in regards to my new neighbours windows overlooking our yards , I confess that things are more difficult than originally thought.
It turns out that our new neighbour is not so new , she was our neighbour for many years at a previous address , my wife and I know her and her family very well.

Small world yes , it looks like Merinda's world is getting smaller and much confined.