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Today I was able to get dress as I was home alone for a few hours. I got into a pair of panties, sliped on a nice pair of nylons and put on for only the seoond time a new back skirt. I put on a bra that I filled out with make shift forms. I then put on my black blouse that ties in the back. I then put on some mascara for the first time (I need much more practice) and put on some pink lipstick.

I feel so good with these things on and I would not mind wearing more often but I am not able to right now. I just wanted to tell everyone that I feel goo dressing up as a woman (I still need a wig and some real breast forms). I need some help with makeup as I just started to do that. As I am stitting here writting this I feel natural about what I am doing. My wife has told me that wearing a bra is not fun nor anything else, but I can not help but wonder why she says that. I feel good in a bra and think if I had some good breast forms it would feel even better.

Does anyone feel that what we do is not natural? If it wern't for societies strong dictates we could be more free to express ourselves. I just wish I could do this every day and for many hours at a time too.

I am glad I have this forum to talk freely and get advice and have some friendship too

Erica

Hi Erica,
I have been dressing for many years and I still look forward to the times when I am Home Alone. I love the feel of panties ,stockings, waist sinchers, cammi's, slips, heels, and my bra with my forms. I love the snug fit of the undergarmets and the silky feel of theother things against my shaved skin. If it is not natural then why does it feel so good and make me feel so good. I take every opprotunity to dress. Sometimes its only for an hour or so, others it is all day. Once I got to stay dressed for three straight days, boy was it hard to go back to drab. I travel for a living and I never go any where without at least two outfits and a nightgown.
My wife is not that supportive so I had a hard time learning to do my make up. Recently however I have gone to the Mac Make up counter at the mall close to me and they were wonderful. They knew what was going were very careful to show me what the were doing and how to keep it fairly simple so I could repeat it myself.
When you get you wig try to find what they call a Lace Front Wig, they look more natural

I've been dressed all day today, bra, hand-carved foam forms, panties, pantyhose, Ked's, and a homemade pullover princess dress. Nothing fancy or pretentious. Being in between jobs, I could wear about anything, but I chose this today. I don't know why. The bra is not a turn-on... none of it is a turn on. It was, many years ago.

Perhaps wearing a jock-strap was a turn on when I was 12. I don't really remember, and try to shut most of my childhood out of my memory. Now wearing a jock strap is just disgusting.

I think wearing a bra is perhaps similar for a woman. A necessity, sure, but certainly not erotic. Just part of getting dressed for daily activities.

OK, except for the hose, I dressed for what I had planned today: laundry and ironing. 4:56PM and I haven't started... Time to get off the computer and get to work.

Hugs,

Bernice

Erica S wrote:Does anyone feel that what we do is not natural?

Well, it may may not be natural for some, but it's definitely natural for me.

Bernice you brought back a memory for me of when we had to wear jockstraps in gym. I did my best to convince myself it was just a bra for my genitals but it didn't work. To this day I dislike anything down there that is too confining, which rules out panty girdles.......

Wearing men's clothes feels natural. Wearing womens clothes also feels natural. But I don't put a lot of stock in those feelings for myself. Abusing alcohol and drugs also felt so natural, as did random vandalism when I was an angry teenager, which felt incredibly natural and freeing.

All that being said, and a more intellectual level, which is where I need to go with these things, I don't see any problem with blurring my own lines in terms of what I wear, and more importantly, what characteristics in the male/female-yin/yang I express.

Zari