Being seen in panties

RickS · Post by **RickS** » Fri Jan 15, 2010 10:03 am

I weat panties 24/7.
I am very discreat and don't want to flash them.'
But how do you get past that feeling at dr.s

Absaroka · Post by **Absaroka** » Fri Jan 15, 2010 2:07 pm

If it makes you uncomfortable, just wear mens underwear to the doctors. What is it you are trying to prove by never wearing them?

On the other hand, if there is an important feeling attached to not wearing mens underwear, then that is your reason for wearing them to the doctors office, and you can try to accept that.

You'll probably find that the doctor is pretty professional about it. This is after all the same man who sticks his finger up in you for the prostate exam. Panties are small potatoes

Zari

Kimberly Kael · Post by **Kimberly Kael** » Fri Jan 15, 2010 7:53 pm

Agreed that doctors aren't going to find your choice of undergarment particularly surprising. You won't be the first patient they've seen who cross-dresses and it might even be a way to help you get comfortable with accepting who you are. The same goes for polished toenails and anything else you can think of along these lines.

Michelle Miller · Post by **Michelle Miller** » Fri Jan 15, 2010 9:19 pm

If you get a funny look/snide comment/etc about them, just say "It's ok, I have a note from my doctor"

Pat · Post by **Pat** » Sat Jan 16, 2010 5:05 am

Since I went to my doctor with admitting to my gender problems, I now go wearing my panties, bra, earrings, etc. and admitted that I had been crossdressing for a number years, and does he does not bat an eyelid nor does the office staff they just accept it. So the answer is just take courage and do it.

Rony · Post by **Rony** » Sat Jan 16, 2010 8:04 am

I've been wearing panties 24/7 for the past 2 years, SO goes along with black non lacey, during annual medical check Dr has said nothing about underwear.
Nor have I admitted to anything.

JoAnnDallas · Post by **JoAnnDallas** » Sat Jan 16, 2010 8:35 pm

My doctor knows I am TG, but then too she is one of the premier TG doctors here in Dallas, TX.
But on the other side of things, there is NO WAY I would wear panties when I go and see my doctor at the VA Hospital. LOL

Post by **Celia** » Sat Jan 16, 2010 10:41 pm

It's kind of dreary, but there are two places I never wear panties: the airport and the doctor's office. I wear men's briefs and console myself that it's only temporary. I don't like educating people who don't have an excuse for not knowing better. And I sure as heck don't want them distracted from their primary tasks.

-Celia

April Rose · Post by **April Rose** » Sun Jan 17, 2010 9:19 am

Celia, I feel the same way. I guess it's one of those things where, you do it if you have to, if you feel you really need it, but if you don't have to, why set yourself up for problems?

Kimberly Kael · Post by **Kimberly Kael** » Sun Jan 17, 2010 2:30 pm

Rony wrote:SO goes along with black non lacey ...

Good point. While I don't think you'd get any comments regardless of what you wore, I do think it's less appropriate to wear something overtly sexy. Some basic cotton panties can be perfectly feminine without demanding attention.

Lydia · Post by **Lydia** » Mon Jan 18, 2010 1:05 pm

At one doctor visit, he suddenly decided to check my prostate. Pulled down my pink lacy panties - never said a word except to warn my that the prostate was a bit enlarged.

They've seen it all.

Hugs,

Lydia

Rony · Post by **Rony** » Mon Jan 18, 2010 1:51 pm

If you are concerned about being seen try `Barely There' Style 2803 in black.
Everybody is wearing coloured underwear these days.

Ronnie

Absaroka · Post by **Absaroka** » Tue Jan 19, 2010 8:02 am

I've worn plain black panties to the gym and locker room many times and no one has noticed. If they think anything at all they probably think they are just unisex.

Zari

Angela · Post by **Angela** » Wed Jan 20, 2010 6:08 am

Plain panties are the answer
You can still be true to yourself and wear panties.

Karen · Post by **Karen** » Thu Mar 04, 2010 1:57 am

Angela's answer is good, plain cotton panties are almost co-sexual.

(co-sexual....does that word exist????) heheheh

Chances are the doctor could care less, he's been seeing people

all day and is probably bored and thinking about getting out

of the office and getting a drink.

Good luck