Any advice on day to day fem?
Posted: Sat Feb 27, 2010 1:08 am
So here is my situation. Any advice anyone can give will be helpful.
I started crossdressing very young, about 6 or 7. Of course by the time I was 9 my mother walked in on me and told me how “wrong” I was. I have kept my secret for more then 30 years now because of that.
I’m not gay, I just feel more comfortable in fem. My friends like to call it… metro. They don’t know I dress, they just say I have style. lol
I work with some people however who are very homophobic. I don’t think they would feel comfortable with me if they knew I liked to crossdress. The few people who know tell me I should not care, but I think it’s important that people be able to work together without being uncomfortable. But now I’m not as happy as I could be. I want to fit in at work but the more fem I am the more at ease I feel.
So hear is the question. What can I do in my day to day life to feel more fem without making my coworkers and the others around me uncomfortable and without taking it so far that I upset my SO?
I all ready shave my body. I ware panties 80% of the time. I ware thigh highs, tights and pantyhose as often as I can. I have even tried to ware camisoles under my shirts. But then I’m afraid someone will notice.
I’m looking for things I can do that will help me feel fem at home, at work and out of the house. Things I can do without too much fear of people noticing.
I started crossdressing very young, about 6 or 7. Of course by the time I was 9 my mother walked in on me and told me how “wrong” I was. I have kept my secret for more then 30 years now because of that.
I’m not gay, I just feel more comfortable in fem. My friends like to call it… metro. They don’t know I dress, they just say I have style. lol
I work with some people however who are very homophobic. I don’t think they would feel comfortable with me if they knew I liked to crossdress. The few people who know tell me I should not care, but I think it’s important that people be able to work together without being uncomfortable. But now I’m not as happy as I could be. I want to fit in at work but the more fem I am the more at ease I feel.
So hear is the question. What can I do in my day to day life to feel more fem without making my coworkers and the others around me uncomfortable and without taking it so far that I upset my SO?
I all ready shave my body. I ware panties 80% of the time. I ware thigh highs, tights and pantyhose as often as I can. I have even tried to ware camisoles under my shirts. But then I’m afraid someone will notice.
I’m looking for things I can do that will help me feel fem at home, at work and out of the house. Things I can do without too much fear of people noticing.