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So I told my wife about Angela about two and a half years ago. She was very uncomfortable with it and after a few months we ended up with an unofficial don't ask / don't tell policy. So I've been struggling since then going through a few purge cycles trying to be the man she deserves.

I'vehinted that the need to crossdres has never gone away and likely never will. She would usually just ignore the hints and our conversation would move on to something else.

Then for Father's Day she surprised me with a special gift: two pairs of very pretty panties. She looked a little anxious about giving me them so I asked, "Are you sure you're ready to accept this part of me?"

She replied, "I think so. That's why I started with the panties."

I am very excited about the gift, trying not to be TOO excited. I can't have her regress. So it's a little weird bing excited and cautious at the same time.

By the way they feel wonderful. I'm wearing a pair right now.

What a great gift! The one I am speaking of is the acceptance from your wife. The panties are a good gift also but the best is the acceptance.

I know That feeling too well....It only gets better when the excitement becomes mutual, Hopefully you'll get to enjoy shopping together with your spouse then you'll really be in a euphoric mind set....Wow I love it when my wife plans our outtings to go get our nails pedicure a little shopping and dinner.....

That's great, Angela.

Nosey me , was just wondering how she knew what size you wear

good question...
I'm betting because they wear the same or close to the same size and somebody has been borrowing when she shouldn't

Angela that is wonderful for you and your wife to get to that point. Just remember as you said it took her about two and a half years to get to this point. It may take as much and more to get to the next step. As we say baby steps, and some times the steps are long and painful to wait through. If you can try to stay out of the pink fog and let her continue to lead.

Just continue to keep the rest of your marriage healthy and keep the communication open in all parts of your marriage. A healthy over all marriage makes it easier to deal with the bumps along the way.

Davita wrote:good question...
I'm betting because they wear the same or close to the same size and somebody has been borrowing when she shouldn't

Guilty as charged.

That is wonderful. I had some similar experiences for a year---then she turned negative. Nurture and be slow and patience and perhaps you will be one of the very lucky ones that has a neutral to positive supportive wife. Honestly, I would give much to have a positive relationship that included Gina.

Congratulations! It's all good from there