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Lately, I feel that I am becoming more feminine with my demeanor. I can't really hold it back any longer. I am 45 and feel that I am not really a man at all. Inside, I feel all girly and pretty. Why is it that I am feeling like this? I am accepting this very special part of who I am. Is it unusual to race home, shower, shave, get girly and slip on one of my beautiful long nightgowns to lounge in after working all day? I just feel so much better when I am dressed all girly and femme. Thanks for reading this girls. I feel like this site makes me feel like myself too being all pretty. I need support and guidance please.

What is unusual for some may not be for others.

A number of CDs would love to be able to go home every day and get dressed.

Many find it to be a bother, others don't care if it only gives them a small amount of time dressed and relaxing at home.

Becoming more accepting of yourself can easily result in the desire for more.

Andrea,
What changed in your life that got you feeling more fem?

The more I don't hide from folks and the more I'm out, the more relaxed and the more I gravitate towards my fem self. Some might say this change in attitude from thinking CD to thinking TS could be hormonal. I think maybe some is but I also think as my barriers come down, my being is finding it's balance.

Maybe you are just finding your balance now that you can. Now about that running home and putting on a night gown. Women, even the girly ones (like me), are all about comfy. Cute, sexy, comfy, silky, soft, warm, cozy. Girly girls will experience all of them over the seasons. If you like your nightgowns and get to wear them... go for it, girl. It's a definite "feel good".

I live single and have the complete freedom to dress up. Something I just can't live without.