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I am so glad I joined this lovely family. When I joined, I had no idea how much love and support this forum and chat room. As I explore my gender identity, I am realizing that it very good to dress to become myself and to share those feelings here. As I grew up, my feminine side was emerging back then. I feel that all of you here have helped me grow into the woman that I want to be. So far my progress has been amazing. Had the first outing on NCOD on Oct. 11th. I never did think I would enjoy shopping for women's clothing and get a bra fitting. Both have been very exciting and have allowed my feminine side to really flourish. I am also exploring nail polish on my toes too. I have to say, my toes look so much better now that they are painted and look so femme. I am going slow with my progress to let this soak in and enjoy each new step into women hood. As I get older, the desire to dress gets stronger and I can't fight that any longer. Shopping for my new outfits will be very exciting for me. I don't want to feel confined to the male gender role and explore my feminine side. I never was a macho kind of guy and just prefer the softer and gentler side of life. I really think that having this side of me helps me to cope with stress a lot. I really do enjoy coming home from a hard day's work and get femme. I do like to check in here and see who is in the chat room, making new friends along the way. It makes me relax and get more into the female role as I chat. As I learn about myself, I am so happy to be a member and seek answers to my gender identity. I look forward to growing into my female role and enjoying life.

I am so glad that I joined this family as well, being amongst woman that I can really relate to and understand exactly what I am going through is amazing. Even though they have been on this journey long before I came onto it I just feel like they are so supportive no matter what. Realizing that I am transgender has been a shocker for me because I have lived the gay male lifetsyle for so long, I mean I am still gay of course and still very much attracted to men that are men, though the idea of being with a tg that understands my life would be amazing as well. I just know that when I am wearing female clothes that I am so happy and worrying about nothing at all and I know that if I had the resources and the money that I would start hormones and someday get the surgery to officially become female, that would be a dream come true.