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I just happened to realize I am when I am in feminine mode actually living as a woman. Sounds understated but it's really true. When we get dressed, put on our make up and fix our hair and go about our day which could be going anywhere, doing anything ... just living then I have really arrived...I have made it. I have in a sense graduated. I am Anne. I am my self. I am not acting or cross dressing or anything else I am just being who I am. Hard to put into words. Someone comes to the door..."Hello." Got to go to the store, get my purse and go....

Being gender fluid works the same in both genders... it it becoming second nature either way which is how it should be.


This realization for me is just so huge I can't express it really in words! It is phenominal!

I mean when I go to have my hair done...probably early march...I can go however, same to get my nails done (toes) I can do my own manicure, toes are hard to reach...hate having to contort though I am as limber as ever. Go shopping for clothing...depends on which gender I am shopping for as to which section I can be found in...

I am Anne. Being gender fluid I am also "G...". It just flows back and forth for me always has.

I feel that way too.

In my makeup and clothes, I mentally become a woman. I become Martha.

I feel so relaxed and loose the stress. It wonderful feeling being a woman for a little time.

If circumstances would permit, I would dress 24/7 an become Martha..

Yes, I agree with that Anne.
Like, for example, I carry the same purse no matter what gender clothes I'm wearing. And anyway, I sort of find the distinction between men's and women's fashions arbitrary and a bit annoying. Often times women's jeans fit me better, and they always look better on me. And why are women's tops generally lighter and cooler, when men wear long sleeves and suit jackets?
It's crazy, biology would seem to dictate that females should wear warmer clothes and then we wouldn't have all these thermostat wars.

So I don't need to participate in the mindless adherence to cultural mores that are illogical. I will wear what I like.