I'm OUT of the closet!!

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Michelle Diane
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I'm OUT of the closet!!

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It's been a wild 24 hours for me. I'll explain. After my wife went to bed last night I wanted to try some new make up I bought recently, lipstick eyeshadow and some kohl eye liner. I was in the main bathroom and just finished applying my make up when I heard the bedroom door open instantly I panicked looking at myself fully made up with nowhere to run or hide and certainly no time to remove the make up before she came in. The bathroom door opened and in walked my wife. I tried to keep my back to her and she thought something was wrong so she came over to me. I looked at her expecting the worst and mouth sorry with a weak smile.

She looked back and said what? I replied look at me I'm wearing make up. God bless her she said yeah I can see that, so what? and gave me a huge hug and we kissed. By then I was tearing up and trying to explain why I do this. About 10 minutes later and run mascara she said in all honesty You're not going to divorce me and move in with a guy? I said no I'm not gay and she was stuck with me. She breathed a huge sigh of relief and said oh good, I was worried about that. She than said is that why you grow your hair out and keep your nails long and shaped? I said yeah. She smiled and said take your make up off I don't want make up on my clean pillow case and come to bed you can put your nails to good use and give me back scratches.

Thinking it had been some crazy dream I walked into the living room the following morning and she was on the net. she spun her laptop round and said what do you think of this dress? I think it would look good on you...we also need to get you some undies and sorry honey but your boobs have shrunk since you lost weight you'll never pass up top without some help.

While we were browsing for femme clothes for me she asked a few questions like How long? Are you a cross dresser or do you consider yourself transgender? Was there any special jewellery she could make for me? Am I going to get my ears pierced? etc etc I did get told off because when we were dating I had a full femme wardrobe and tossed it all before she came round to my place. She said that was stupid and a waste.

Good gentle ladies of the forum, my name is Michelle....and I'm well and truly OUT OF THE CLOSET. <> :) @@9@@
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OMG! That is so wonderful! *-* God bless your wife! I am so happy for you. \:D/ Some of us weren't that lucky.
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Congrats Michelle! *-*

Now I want to know how long has she suspected and just been waiting for you to tell her what was going on? Also, what prompted her bathroom visit? :)
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WOW that's great!!!!!!
Congratulations :)

I'm so happy for you, you are very lucky to have such a wife!
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Talk about rolling with it....

Congratulations..... :)
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Free at last. Congrats girlfriend!
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WOW!! Lucky you, way to go! But as the others often say, "Go slow", don't want to get the train rolling too fast and miss a turn.

Enjoy,

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Wendae wrote:OMG! That is so wonderful! *-* God bless your wife! I am so happy for you. \:D/ Some of us weren't that lucky.
Thanks,I feel that I am lucky enough to have a wife who is one in a million, I know from this and other forums some girls aren't so lucky....kind of sad. :(
Davita wrote:Congrats Michelle! *-*

Now I want to know how long has she suspected and just been waiting for you to tell her what was going on? Also, what prompted her bathroom visit? :)
Well the bathroom visit is easy it was just bad timing. On nights when she can't sleep and I'm still up she will come into the living room (bathroom in this case) and give me her puppy dog eyes look and say she can't sleep and can I give her back scratches. Gentle caressing and light back scratches will send her to the land of Nod in 5 minutes flat. :)

For years she thought I might be gay or at the very least bisexual and long considered me to have a more than a strong female side. I think last night was just clarification of my trans desires.
Ralitsa wrote:WOW that's great!!!!!!
Congratulations :)

I'm so happy for you, you are very lucky to have such a wife!
Thanks Ralista I've known for 16 years I'm a VERY lucky guy to have such a wife.
Martina Hall wrote:Free at last. Congrats girlfriend!
I can't tell you the feeling that night as she went back to bed and I saw Michelle looking back at me knowing full well Joanne and her had met.
Rikki wrote:WOW!! Lucky you, way to go! But as the others often say, "Go slow", don't want to get the train rolling too fast and miss a turn.

Enjoy,

Rikki
Very lucky, thanks I'm putting the brakes on at the moment and dialled things back a bit. Today I didn't wear any make up just my hoop earrings and a double heart necklace. I've been looking at bra's and forms and put a temp hold on femme clothes I have quite a few andro clothes anyway so slow things down a bit.
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Glad to hear that went well.
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Thanks Anthony and Donna I must say with the thousands of permutations I ran through my head about coming out this wasn't one of them.

So I tried my first manicure tonight in front of my wife and well I suck at manis. I wanted to wear a statement colour so I picked L'oreal Vanentino a very dark intense red. I'm wearing it now just for overnight but I either need to do my nails by myself or practise with her around. Joanne laughed at my attempts and said you can paint a 6mm wargames figure but you can't get nail polish on. :)
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wow, Wow, WOW... You have a wonderful wife. i hope it continues to go well.
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I am a physically male person that likes to wear feminine clothes at times.
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CONGRATULATIONS Michelle....
You are indeed, a very lucky girl to have such an understanding wife. I have one as well, and still revel in the relationship we have developed since we discussed ( and she embraced) my cross-dressing.
It appears you are about to embark on a "girl" shopping spree. Have some serious fun, and be bold.
I hope you enjoy a wonderful life. It looks really "good" on you.
Best Wishes,
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Nicci & KimberlyS. Thank you for your kind words yes I'm truly lucky to have such a wonderful and understanding wife. We were going on an outfit buying sprees but since I've come out and can openly buy and wear what I want I've had to reign myself in otherwise it's and empty bank balance and a full wardrobe. :roll:
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Fantastic news Michelle. You are now happy and fancy free. It is great when we are so readily accepted by our SO's.
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Congrats, Michelle!

It must be wonderful to have such an accepting and understanding wife. Plus it seems like the coming out of the closet process was accomplished with relative ease! Sounds like you and your wife will have some fun times ahead... shopping for clothes, getting dressed up... Good for you both! :)
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